Moms.com - parenting styles https://www.moms.com Information and support for moms and parents to help them lead their best life and raise successful, healthy kids. Thu, 10 Nov 2022 17:00:13 GMT en-US hourly 60 <![CDATA[Kids Who Need The Most Love Ask In Unloving Ways, But Why?]]> https://www.moms.com/why-kids-who-need-the-most-love-ask-in-unloving-ways/ Behavior is communication, and it is not uncommon for children to use behavior to communicate. Sometimes, kids act in ways that feel like a rejection to their parents. In these moments, it is important to remember that these children, most of the time, are in need of love, assurance, and validation. Understanding the root of the child's behavior can make it easier for parents to help them.

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Thu, 10 Nov 2022 17:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/why-kids-who-need-the-most-love-ask-in-unloving-ways/
<![CDATA[Your Child's Behavior Isn't Intentional, You're Just Stressed, Mama]]> https://www.moms.com/childs-behavior-not-intentional-stressed-mama/ The pressures on mothers these days are endless. Health, cooking, cleaning, finances, work, and everything their child or children need on top of it. Mothers aren't getting enough sleep either, according to WebMD. Bottle it all up, and you have a prescription for stress, irritability, and snapping at the kids.

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Thu, 10 Nov 2022 14:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/childs-behavior-not-intentional-stressed-mama/
<![CDATA[How Millennial Moms Can Break Away From Their Authoritarian Parents]]> https://www.moms.com/how-millennial-moms-can-break-away-from-authoritarian-parents/ The median age for millennials in 2022 is around 33 years old. Making the growing portion of this generation currently becoming first-time parents. Millennial Mom is a term being thrown around a lot, as well as Millennial Dad. Typically, when they are referred to it is about something they think needs to be changed. After all, that is what millennials are known for. Trying to change the rules and create new norms.

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Wed, 09 Nov 2022 15:00:15 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-millennial-moms-can-break-away-from-authoritarian-parents/
<![CDATA[How To Create A Semi-Peaceful Home When Siblings Constantly Fight]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-create-a-semi-peaceful-home-when-siblings-constantly-fight/ If life were more like social media, kids would always get along and parents would never have to listen to their kids bickering. Unfortunately, that is not the way the world works. While some siblings become the best of friends, some seem like arch-enemies. It's also very common for them to swing back and forth between the two extremes.

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Tue, 08 Nov 2022 13:01:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-create-a-semi-peaceful-home-when-siblings-constantly-fight/
<![CDATA[What Actually Happens When Mom Doesn't Yell At Her Kids?]]> https://www.moms.com/what-actually-happens-when-mom-doesnt-yell-at-her-kids/ All moms yell at least once in their lives. They feel overstimulated, overwhelmed, or angry, and raise their voices. It may feel like it solves something in that particular moment, but it rarely solves the situation. It doesn't correct any behavior, that is; it may just quiet everyone down and make them obedient for a short while.

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Mon, 07 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-actually-happens-when-mom-doesnt-yell-at-her-kids/
<![CDATA[How To Help Kids Break Free From Instant Gratification]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-help-kids-break-free-from-instant-gratification/ Today's kids and teens are commonly criticized for wanting instant gratification. But what exactly is instant gratification? This term refers to the tendency to give in to a tempting, short-term reward that typically jeopardizes a long-term goal. A few examples of what instant gratification might look like:

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Mon, 07 Nov 2022 15:01:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-help-kids-break-free-from-instant-gratification/
<![CDATA[What It's Like Parenting In Survival Mode]]> https://www.moms.com/what-its-like-parenting-in-survival-mode/ Parenting in survival mode is just like regular parenting, only with an excessive amount of norepinephrine. A lot of parents have days when they might think, "I just need to get through the day." In survival mode, that is every day. No future plans to speak of, just the next twenty-four hours. Fridays seem like they are decades away versus days.

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Sun, 06 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-its-like-parenting-in-survival-mode/
<![CDATA[Non-Disciplinary Approaches To Correcting Tween’s Behavior]]> https://www.moms.com/non-disciplinary-approaches-to-correcting-tweens-behavior/ The tween years can be brutal. One minute a mother is looking at her 'seemingly' little child, the next they are getting a teenage-type attitude with her. That is the age group of 9-12, the between years, which is shortened now to the tween years. This is an awkward stage. Children start gaining a little independence; puberty knocks on the door. It's a bit of a roller coaster of emotions.

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Sun, 06 Nov 2022 14:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/non-disciplinary-approaches-to-correcting-tweens-behavior/
<![CDATA[How To Encourage A Tween Boy To Stop Gaming & Get Outside ]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-encourage-tween-boy-to-stop-gaming-get-outside/ There is a mass appeal in today's society for video games, especially among tween boys. The games are fun, the action is fast, and the challenges are enticing. However, when kids spend most of their time in front of screens, as most parents know, it's not good for them. Video games in particular have a poor effect on these unsuspecting tween boys.

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Sat, 05 Nov 2022 17:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-encourage-tween-boy-to-stop-gaming-get-outside/
<![CDATA[Why Mom Might Be A Different Parent To Each Child]]> https://www.moms.com/why-mom-might-be-a-different-parent-to-each-child/ Moms love all their children equally and try to be fair in how they allocate their energy and time. But do they parent their children in the same way? According to Verywell Family, "Research shows that most parents end up parenting their kids differently —even if they try to be consistent, fair, and make everything equal." Birth order, temperament, gender, and a child's unique needs are a few of the things that influence parenting styles and decisions.

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Sat, 05 Nov 2022 12:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/why-mom-might-be-a-different-parent-to-each-child/
<![CDATA[Why Your Child's Secure Attachment Is More Important Than A Clean House]]> https://www.moms.com/why-childs-secure-attachment-more-important-than-clean-house/ Attachment Parenting is certainly a buzz phrase these days. But honestly, what exactly does it mean to ensure a secure attachment between you and your child? Attachment parenting, in essence, is a parenting style that aims at creating a strong, stable, confident bond between caretaker and child.

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Fri, 04 Nov 2022 17:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/why-childs-secure-attachment-more-important-than-clean-house/
<![CDATA[Improvising Can Help Your Parenting Skills]]> https://www.moms.com/how-improvising-helps-parenting-skills/ If anyone ever said that parenting was easy, or that they had it all figured out, they were probably lying. Parenting can be one of the hardest things to do on this entire planet, and that is because there is no secret answer.

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Fri, 04 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-improvising-helps-parenting-skills/
<![CDATA[Modify Expectations About Child-Raising According To Your Child's Temperament]]> https://www.moms.com/modify-expectations-about-child-raising-according-to-childs-temperament/ As early on as the first few weeks after a mom brings her baby home from the hospital, a child's personality and preferences can be observed. Moms may describe their baby as easy-going, sensitive, or even difficult. Just as we can’t pick the color of their eyes, we don’t choose their temperament. It is an innate quality, something a child is born with.

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Thu, 03 Nov 2022 15:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/modify-expectations-about-child-raising-according-to-childs-temperament/
<![CDATA[How Kids Can Learn Social Skills From Screen Time]]> https://www.moms.com/how-kids-can-learn-social-skills-from-screen-time/ This may seem surprising to most, but a new study published by The University of Chicago found that despite the time spent on smartphones, today's young people are as socially skilled as those of the previous generation. For this study, researchers compared numerous evaluations of children who entered kindergarten in 1998 [long before social media], with children who entered kindergarten in 2010. Both groups of children were ones who had received heavy amounts of screen time. Both groups had similar development in social skills compared to those with little exposure.

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Thu, 03 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-kids-can-learn-social-skills-from-screen-time/
<![CDATA[What Does Dysfunctional Parenting Look Like?]]> https://www.moms.com/what-dysfunctional-parenting-looks-like/ If you asked any parent out there, they would likely say that they have been trying to be the best parent they can be. However, being a parent is not an easy thing to do, and there is no guidebook on how to do it correctly. This means that a lot of parents are making mistakes without even realizing it.

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Wed, 02 Nov 2022 17:00:03 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-dysfunctional-parenting-looks-like/
<![CDATA[The Silky Mom: A Modern Science Mom]]> https://www.moms.com/silky-mom-modern-science-explained/ One of the latest parenting trends have us categorizing mothers into three different types:

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Wed, 02 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/silky-mom-modern-science-explained/
<![CDATA[Supportive Parenting Explained]]> https://www.moms.com/supportive-parenting-explained/ There are many styles of parenting that have been well researched. Most moms will take some parts from the different types to find the best fit for their family. Child development experts agree the authoritative style of parenting has the best possible outcomes, for both parents and children.

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Wed, 02 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/supportive-parenting-explained/
<![CDATA[How Can Moms Tell What Their Parenting Style Is?]]> https://www.moms.com/how-can-moms-tell-what-their-parenting-style-is/ Parenting is an around-the-clock job. As children grow and develop, moms have to continuously adjust to their needs. Making decisions, playing, teaching, talking, and disciplining are a few of the things moms are called to do for their children. All of these interactions will define a mother's parenting style.

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Wed, 02 Nov 2022 12:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-can-moms-tell-what-their-parenting-style-is/
<![CDATA[Children With Strict Parents More Likely To Develop Depression]]> https://www.moms.com/children-with-strict-parents-more-likely-to-develop-depression/ A new study has found that children with strict parents are more likely to develop depression. There are a million ways to be a good parent, and everyone just does what they think is right for them, their family, and their environment. There is no guidebook on how to do motherhood “right.”

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Tue, 01 Nov 2022 17:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/children-with-strict-parents-more-likely-to-develop-depression/
<![CDATA[Time-Outs Explained By Experts]]> https://www.moms.com/time-outs-explained-by-experts/ Some parents use time-outs when their child does something they shouldn't or says something they shouldn't. Likewise, some parents don't use them. These parents often think time-outs are too severe a punishment. They don't think children should be left alone to handle their hard emotions. Instead, these parents may use "time ins." Time-in is when the parent shows love and understanding for the child as they calm down.

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Mon, 31 Oct 2022 13:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/time-outs-explained-by-experts/
<![CDATA[Positive Parenting & Hand Hygiene Keep Kids Healthy]]> https://www.moms.com/how-positive-parenting-hand-hygiene-keep-kids-healthy/ A new study has found a link between positive parenting and good hand hygiene, and it could help keep everyone healthy as we enter cold and flu season. Most adults know how important it is to make sure they are washing their hands, as it is the best way to keep illnesses and viruses away.

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Sun, 30 Oct 2022 13:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-positive-parenting-hand-hygiene-keep-kids-healthy/
<![CDATA[What Children Need To Live A Happy Childhood]]> https://www.moms.com/what-children-need-for-happy-childhood/ There is a lot of information out there on what children need most as they grow, how to raise smart kids, even how to raise successful kids. What about raising happy kids? Happier kids, after all, are more likely to turn into successful, accomplished adults.

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Tue, 25 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-children-need-for-happy-childhood/
<![CDATA[What Is Discipline (& What It Isn't)]]> https://www.moms.com/what-is-discipline-what-it-isnt/ A popular misconception about discipline is that it is the same as punishment. More times than not, people don't understand there is a difference between the two. It's really important that parents understand this though. Disciplining and child for something looks a lot different from punishment.

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Mon, 24 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-is-discipline-what-it-isnt/
<![CDATA[Koala Parenting Explained]]> https://www.moms.com/koala-parenting-explained/ The koala parenting style focuses on nurturing an emotional and physical bond between mother and baby. Koala parents view the physical, mental, and emotional growth of children as all equally important parts of development.

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Mon, 24 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/koala-parenting-explained/
<![CDATA[How Socioeconomic Status Affects Parenting & Child Development]]> https://www.moms.com/how-socioeconomic-status-affects-parenting-child-development/ Socioeconomic status (SES) is defined by the American Psychological Association as the social standing or class of an individual or group. It is often measured as a combination of education, income and occupation. Examinations of socioeconomic status often reveal inequities in access to resources, plus issues related to privilege, power and control.

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Mon, 24 Oct 2022 15:00:14 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-socioeconomic-status-affects-parenting-child-development/
<![CDATA[Parenting Styles: Concerted Cultivation & The Accomplishment Of Natural Growth]]> https://www.moms.com/parenting-styles-concerted-cultivation-the-accomplishment-of-natural-growth/ When people think of parenting styles, they typically think of things like overprotective, demanding, gentle, and so on. However, there are a lot of different parenting styles out there and combinations of parenting styles that make up different parenting styles. When you dig deeper into what is on the surface of parenting is where you find styles like concerted cultivation & the accomplishment of natural growth.

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Mon, 24 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/parenting-styles-concerted-cultivation-the-accomplishment-of-natural-growth/
<![CDATA[Tips For Preschoolers To Sit Still During Time-Out]]> https://www.moms.com/tips-for-preschoolers-to-sit-still-during-time-out/ Decades of research show that using time-outs the correct way is a proven way to help correct behaviors. Yes, they sometimes get a bad rap, usually because parents are using them for punishment, which isn't the intended purpose. Some parents see no difference in behavior, so they don't believe it works. But, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), times-outs are still one of the most highly recommended forms of discipline, not punishment.

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Sun, 23 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/tips-for-preschoolers-to-sit-still-during-time-out/
<![CDATA[It's Not Difficult Taking Care Of My Child, It's Hard Doing Everything Else While Being A Mom]]> https://www.moms.com/not-difficult-taking-care-of-child-but-hard-doing-everything/ I've been a mom long enough that I no longer find it too difficult to take care of my kids, but I find it really hard to do anything else in my adult life.I struggle to make meals every single night and always forget to wash my face. I easily fall behind on our laundry and can barely bring myself to fold it within a reasonable time frame.

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Tue, 18 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/not-difficult-taking-care-of-child-but-hard-doing-everything/
<![CDATA[Parenting Tips Our Parents Gave To Us That Aren’t True Anymore]]> https://www.moms.com/parenting-tips-our-parents-gave-to-us-not-true-anymore/ Parenting has evolved as the years have gone on, and being a mom looks different now than it did when our own mothers had us when we were young. Science is always changing, and this means that researchers are constantly learning new things about how everything works, and this includes child development.

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Sun, 16 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/parenting-tips-our-parents-gave-to-us-not-true-anymore/
<![CDATA[Empowering The Child Who Learns Differently]]> https://www.moms.com/empowering-child-who-learns-differently/ When children learn in ways that are outside the realm of typical, it can cause them trouble in school and even lead to the diagnosis of a learning disability. While it is an additional challenge, there are many ways to overcome the difficulties of learning differently. When kids are diagnosed with either a learning disability or ADHD, it's normal to worry about how this will affect them as they grow. Parents can empower their children who learn differently by learning themselves about what their child needs in order to succeed in school.

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Sat, 15 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/empowering-child-who-learns-differently/
<![CDATA[Parenting Traps As Defined By Experts]]> https://www.moms.com/parenting-traps-as-defined-by-experts/ Parenting is never going to be easy, and that is because there is no guidebook on how to do this “right.” There is no instruction manual telling parents how they should react, what they should do, or how to handle those big moments in life. Parents are navigating them blindly, only having experience and advice to go on.

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Thu, 13 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/parenting-traps-as-defined-by-experts/
<![CDATA[Parents’ Effective Instructions Benefit Kids: How To Give Them]]> https://www.moms.com/how-parents-give-effective-instructions-that-benefit-kids/ Trying to give kids instructions can get really frustrating. The parents who have to do it can become frustrated, and the children they give instructions to can be frustrated as well, and that's never good. Parents who find themselves in this situation might want to try a different approach when it comes to giving their children effective instructions. There are a few tips they can give to make this an easier process for everyone involved.

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Thu, 13 Oct 2022 13:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-parents-give-effective-instructions-that-benefit-kids/
<![CDATA[How To Let Your Tween Express Themselves Without Being Too Lax (Tips For Liberal Moms)]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-let-tween-express-without-being-too-lax-liberal-moms/ By the time your child is a tween, they're much more aware of the world around them and may have taken up an interest in current politics. We live in a world where politics has become very divisive and there seem to be more extreme people on both ends of the spectrum. While most people find themselves on one side or the other, many do have a more middle-ground viewpoint and a desire to have a better overall community.

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Thu, 13 Oct 2022 12:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-let-tween-express-without-being-too-lax-liberal-moms/
<![CDATA[How Parents Can Help Improve Children’s Classroom Behavior ]]> https://www.moms.com/how-parents-can-help-improve-childrens-classroom-behavior/ When you have a child who needs to improve their classroom behavior, you can feel really guilty or bad about it as a parent. However, please don't beat yourself up too much about what is happening at the moment. It's not your fault, and you know that some of the kindest, most patient people can have children that were just born to challenge others and challenge authority. There's nothing that you as a parent have done wrong for your child to misbehave in class, but it is an issue that you need to address and help solve.

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Thu, 13 Oct 2022 11:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-parents-can-help-improve-childrens-classroom-behavior/
<![CDATA[How To Have Conversations With Child That Will Help Them Feel Heard & Not Dismissed]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-have-conversations-with-child-helping-feel-heard-not-dismissed/ Children are not miniature versions of adults; they should not be treated as such either. The actual adults have an important role in guiding and facilitating children's development. The transformation into adulthood is a big process. This process includes factors like, but not limited to, biological, cognitive, and moral development.

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Sun, 09 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-have-conversations-with-child-helping-feel-heard-not-dismissed/
<![CDATA[Adults May Be More Conservative After Having Kids]]> https://www.moms.com/adults-more-conservative-after-having-kids/ A new study has found that parents are more likely to have more “conservative” values and styles of thinking. Parenting is a complex structure, and it is not always so black-and-white. It is not just about having children and making sure they have what they need to grow and thrive.

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Sun, 09 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/adults-more-conservative-after-having-kids/
<![CDATA[How To Apologize To A Teen Who May Be Less Forgiving]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-apologize-to-teen-who-may-be-less-forgiving/ There will be times in your journey of motherhood when you need to apologize to your teenager which can be difficult on its own. This can become even harder if you have a teenager who is less forgiving than most. It's hard for many of us even to apologize in general and if you're anticipating a response from your teen that isn't receptive to your apology, you may be apprehensive to even apologize at all.

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Sat, 08 Oct 2022 11:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-apologize-to-teen-who-may-be-less-forgiving/
<![CDATA[Tips For Moms Wanting To Be A Less Restrictive Parent]]> https://www.moms.com/tips-for-moms-wanting-to-be-less-restrictive-parent/ There seem to be a million different ways to be a parent, and it can be hard (if not impossible) to say which one is the “best.” That is because every mom has to do what is best for her children, and her family. Since every family dynamic is different, this is going to vary.

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Fri, 07 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/tips-for-moms-wanting-to-be-less-restrictive-parent/
<![CDATA[Parenting Expert Tips On Dealing With A Disrespectful Tween]]> https://www.moms.com/dealing-with-disrespectful-tween-parenting-expert-tips/ Raising kids can be a wonderful thing, but sometimes children can be very disrespectful, and it's easy for one to lose their temper when this happens. Those who have raised children who are in their teen or tween years have likely faced some really tough times during which their kids tested their patience a bit. But the good thing is that there are some really effective tips that can help moms and dads handle situations like this.

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Wed, 05 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/dealing-with-disrespectful-tween-parenting-expert-tips/
<![CDATA[Does Sharing Custody Of Children Ever Get Better Emotionally?]]> https://www.moms.com/does-sharing-custody-of-children-ever-get-better-emotionally/ Sharing custody of a child normally starts with a divorce or break-up of some kind. Not always, but when it does, it can further complicate the already emotional roller coaster a mom might be on when being ordered to share her child, too.

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Tue, 04 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/does-sharing-custody-of-children-ever-get-better-emotionally/
<![CDATA[Why Your Parenting Style Will Change With Each Child]]> https://www.moms.com/why-parenting-style-will-change-with-each-child/ There is more than one way to raise a child, which means that there are a lot of different parenting styles out there. Some parents might be very strict, while others find that they prefer to be more laid back when it comes to raising their children. But on the other hand, there are some moms and dads out there who might find that their parenting styles are kind of like a combination of more than one style.

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Mon, 03 Oct 2022 12:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/why-parenting-style-will-change-with-each-child/
<![CDATA[“Work Hard”: What Your Kids Are Really Hearing]]> https://www.moms.com/work-hard-meaning-to-kids/ When parents tell their kids to work hard in order to succeed, it is quite a loaded statement. What it expresses to kids is that if they do not work hard, they will have less in life. That no matter the challenges kids face they can be overcome with hard work. That success rests on their shoulders versus there being any outside influences that contribute to success. All of these can cause biases against others and a lot of pressure to be carried on the shoulders of kids placed there by parents. All because of what kids really hear when they are told "work hard."

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Sun, 02 Oct 2022 12:01:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/work-hard-meaning-to-kids/
<![CDATA[Girls Who Are Tomboys: Is It Just A Phase Or Is It Who They Are?]]> https://www.moms.com/girls-tomboys-phase-explained/ The popular phrase tomboy refers to girls who display many characteristics that are mainly attributed to boys. These are girls who are very spirited and like to run and play sports. They have a lot of energy, dislike dresses, and may have more friends who are boys than girls.

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Wed, 28 Sep 2022 15:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/girls-tomboys-phase-explained/
<![CDATA[Milestones Of A Self-Sufficient Teenager]]> https://www.moms.com/self-sufficient-teenager-milestones/ Tweens and teens face a lot of different challenges facing them. As they continue to progress through adolescence, it's important they have a good support system. They may think they can find their own way, and maybe they can go through some issues, but other times they still need guidance.

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Sun, 25 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/self-sufficient-teenager-milestones/
<![CDATA[Reasons Positive Parenting Isn't Working]]> https://www.moms.com/reasons-positive-parenting-is-not-working/ When mom decides to welcome children into this world, there are a lot of decisions that have to be made and made quickly. One of the biggest decisions that mom has to make is what kind of parent she wants to be to her children. There are many parenting styles out there, and the one that is right for mom will depend on a lot of variables.

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Sun, 25 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/reasons-positive-parenting-is-not-working/
<![CDATA[Having Excessive Mom Guilt Might Say This About You]]> https://www.moms.com/having-excessive-mom-guilt-might-say-this-about-you/ Mothers work very hard and put a lot of energy into being a parent. It should be a good feeling and full of love. It is, but not always. The shocking reality of motherhood is mom guilt. It's a beast. Moms tend to beat themselves up and feel like complete failures at times.

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Sat, 24 Sep 2022 17:01:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/having-excessive-mom-guilt-might-say-this-about-you/
<![CDATA[The Biggest Difference Between Boy Moms & Girl Moms]]> https://www.moms.com/biggest-difference-between-boy-moms-girl-moms/ There is no exact science on the difference between boy moms and girl moms, or is there? Aside from the fact that boy moms have only boys, and girl moms have only girls, there are some other key differences. A lot of people might be thinking about the frustration level of a boy mom trying to shop for her son[s] when 90% of the kids department is devoted to girls. It's more than that, though, too.

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Fri, 23 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/biggest-difference-between-boy-moms-girl-moms/
<![CDATA[Moms, Are You Angry, Mad, Or Just Overstimulated? Know The Difference]]> https://www.moms.com/feeling-angry-mad-or-overstimulated-difference/ A very unrecognized truth of motherhood is that it is very overstimulating. Sensory overload is when one or many of your senses become overstimulated. Your senses are taking in more information than your brain can process at one time. Overstimulation might look like being overwhelmed, exhausted, and/or angry.

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Thu, 22 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/feeling-angry-mad-or-overstimulated-difference/
<![CDATA[The Different Types Of Moms]]> https://www.moms.com/different-types-of-moms/ When women have children, they become moms. They might be a boy mom, a girl mom, a twin mom, or a mom of both. It seems pretty simple. However, in today's society, there are so many classifications of moms. Motherhood has taken on a life of its own and has since multiplied itself into tiny sub-categories.

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Wed, 21 Sep 2022 15:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/different-types-of-moms/
<![CDATA[Why Sometimes Listening To Experts Doesn't Allow You To Parent Best]]> https://www.moms.com/why-sometimes-listening-to-experts-not-allow-you-to-parent-best/ Parenting advice from experts has changed remarkably over the last several decades. Because of this, the way that grandparents were raised is different than how parents were raised and likely different from how kids are raised today. The hope is that each generation understands just a little better than the last how to best parent kids, by building on the solid advice given by moms. But with various experts claiming to have the best approach to parenting, it is hard to know who to listen to and who to avoid. What advice is unwanted and what is warranted. This is why sometimes listening to experts does not allow parents to do their best.

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Wed, 21 Sep 2022 12:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/why-sometimes-listening-to-experts-not-allow-you-to-parent-best/
<![CDATA[Secrets Working Moms Want The World To Know]]> https://www.moms.com/secrets-working-moms-want-the-world-to-know/ Back in the day, it used to be standard, and just expected that moms stayed home. Their job was to take care of the house and the kids. These days, a lot of moms work, some because they have to, others because they want to work. They want to contribute to the family financially.

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Tue, 20 Sep 2022 13:20:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/secrets-working-moms-want-the-world-to-know/
<![CDATA[How To Shut Down Thoughts Telling You You're Screwing Up Your Child]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-shut-down-thoughts-that-you-are-screwing-up-your-child/ As moms, we will all inevitably wonder if we're screwing up our kids or not. Being a parent is hard and really none of us know what we're doing. These negative thoughts can really take a toll on a mom, but we really shouldn't worry so much. It's really a miracle all of humanity has gotten this far considering just how many parents "screw up" their kids. The reality is that yes, you may be absolutely screwing up your kids. Everyone does, everyone has, and everyone will.

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Tue, 20 Sep 2022 12:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-shut-down-thoughts-that-you-are-screwing-up-your-child/
<![CDATA[Levels Of Lying In Children]]> https://www.moms.com/why-children-lie-and-levels/ Some children lie and some do it a lot more than others. Moms are not fans of lying, and we can all agree that our jobs are easier if the kids are just truthful. Even small lies can be frustrating to parents and leave them baffled as to why their kid does it. Children will lie about things like not eating the last cookie, about who made a mess, or they make up something that happened at school.

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Sat, 17 Sep 2022 12:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/why-children-lie-and-levels/
<![CDATA[The Real Reason Mom Relies On Yelling To Get Through Her Kids]]> https://www.moms.com/real-reason-mom-relies-yelling-kids/ Sometimes moms may yell at their kids way more than they'd like to admit. Yelling comes from both a place of anger and frustration for moms. When a mom yells, it may signal she has reached her breaking point and feels she has no other choice. For other moms, yelling may be something they do all too often and know they need to stop but still can't help it. Yelling at our kids will likely happen to the best of us at some point, and moms are known for yelling at their kids usually out of exasperation.

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Sat, 17 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/real-reason-mom-relies-yelling-kids/
<![CDATA[Siblings Who Are Friends Have Parents That Do These Things]]> https://www.moms.com/siblings-friends-parents-things/ When you have more than one child, and you're raising siblings, it's natural to want them to be friends and love each other. However, that fantasy can be quickly crushed by the sounds of toddlers trying to out yell each other, school-age children arguing over snacks and cartoons, and teenagers threatening violence to one another. All of these sibling rivalries are so natural and yet can drive parents bonkers.

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Fri, 16 Sep 2022 11:01:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/siblings-friends-parents-things/
<![CDATA[What To Do When You've Been Your Kid's Friend, But Now They're Taking Advantage Of You]]> https://www.moms.com/what-to-do-when-youve-been-your-kids-friend-but-now-theyre-taking-advantage-of-you/ Being a mom is a very complex thing, and there are a million ways to do it. There are dozens of different parenting styles and models, and some moms choose one and stick to it, and others take branches from different trees to build a garden that works well for them. There may not be one right way, but there are benefits and drawbacks to every single thing that moms do.

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Wed, 14 Sep 2022 17:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-to-do-when-youve-been-your-kids-friend-but-now-theyre-taking-advantage-of-you/
<![CDATA[Transgender Parents "Hesitate" To Give Child A Gender Label]]> https://www.moms.com/transgender-parents-hesitate-to-give-child-a-gender-label/ A new study has found that transgender parents “hesitate” to give their children a gender label. While it may be easy to think that the essentials of parenting are the same regardless of race, culture and sexual orientation/identity, there can be some noticeable differences.

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Wed, 14 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/transgender-parents-hesitate-to-give-child-a-gender-label/
<![CDATA[How To Keep Firm Boundaries When You Are A Work From Home Mom]]> https://www.moms.com/how-to-keep-firm-parent-boundaries-when-working-from-home/ When some people think of work at home moms (WAHM) they may think of all the Facebook posts they see of WAHMs claiming to be at the beach enjoying, "their best life", all while raising tiny humans, keeping house, doing laundry, etc.

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Wed, 14 Sep 2022 14:00:11 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-to-keep-firm-parent-boundaries-when-working-from-home/
<![CDATA[How To React When Your "Good" Child Suddenly Behaves "Bad"]]> https://www.moms.com/react-when-good-child-suddenly-bad/ For many parents, it can be surprising when their child who normally exhibits good behavior starts behaving badly. This change in behavior is not only concerning but causes parents to have to think on their feet about how to handle their kids, and how to approach this new issue. The reasons for this change could vary, and you may be in the dark at first.

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Wed, 14 Sep 2022 12:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/react-when-good-child-suddenly-bad/
<![CDATA[Traits Parents Fear Passing Onto Their Children]]> https://www.moms.com/traits-parents-fear-passing-onto-their-children/ When a couple has a brand-new baby, it is common to hear things like, "He has his father's nose" or "She has her mother's eyes." When people say these things, they are referring to genetic traits that have been passed down to a child from their biological parents.

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Sun, 11 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/traits-parents-fear-passing-onto-their-children/
<![CDATA[Alternatives To Saying 'No' To Your Children]]> https://www.moms.com/alternatives-to-saying-no-to-children/ Motherhood is about a lot of things, but one of the most important jobs they will have is guiding their children through life and development. They have to make sure they grow up respecting boundaries, knowing right from wrong, and how to be safe.

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Thu, 08 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/alternatives-to-saying-no-to-children/
<![CDATA[Why A Sensory Diet Is Not Only For Kids With Special Needs]]> https://www.moms.com/why-sensory-diet-not-only-for-special-needs-kids/ The first time people hear, "sensory diet", they might think food is involved; it's not. Diet has four different meanings, according to Merriam-Webster. In the sense it is used here, diet means, something provided or experienced repeatedly.

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Thu, 08 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/why-sensory-diet-not-only-for-special-needs-kids/
<![CDATA[Teaching Children Assertiveness Using Color]]> https://www.moms.com/teaching-children-assertiveness-using-color/ Parents can be a big help in teaching their child to be more assertive. Assertiveness can help children to feel more in control, maneuver more smoothly through adolescent challenges, and adapt in social situations.

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Thu, 08 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/teaching-children-assertiveness-using-color/
<![CDATA[Who Needs You More, Your Toddler Or Your Teen?]]> https://www.moms.com/who-needs-you-more-your-toddler-or-your-teen/ Parents often hash it out over what age is the hardest; regarding children. It seems that it always leans towards the age that a particular parent is dealing with at the moment. One thing that can always be agreed on is: parenting is hard.

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Thu, 08 Sep 2022 13:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/who-needs-you-more-your-toddler-or-your-teen/
<![CDATA[What Moms Need To Know About Empathy When It Comes To Their Child]]> https://www.moms.com/what-moms-need-to-know-about-empathy-when-it-comes-to-their-child/ Empathy is often thought of as being able to love and care about other people. When someone has the ability to connect with someone emotionally, understanding why a person may feel hurt by seeing things from their point of view. While that is part of empathy, there are other levels of empathy that a lot of people may not even realize exist.

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Wed, 07 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-moms-need-to-know-about-empathy-when-it-comes-to-their-child/
<![CDATA[Yes, You Will Miss The Toddler Stage, Mom (& Here Is Why)]]> https://www.moms.com/yes-you-will-miss-the-toddler-stage-mom-here-is-why/ What is the worst age? The terrible Twos? Threenagers? Feisty Four? It's all still up for debate, and most likely always will be. (It's three; the worst age is three) Most moms cannot believe their toddlers can level up as they do, but surprise! They do.

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Wed, 07 Sep 2022 13:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/yes-you-will-miss-the-toddler-stage-mom-here-is-why/
<![CDATA[How Self-Centered Parenting Affects Children]]> https://www.moms.com/how-self-centered-parenting-affects-children/ From the moment a woman sees two lines on a pregnancy test, she has a lot of decisions to make. She has to decide how she is going to feed her baby, if she is going to use cloth diapers, and what she is going to name her baby. While these are all important decisions, mom also starts thinking about long-term ideals, like what kind of mom she is going to be.

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Sun, 04 Sep 2022 17:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/how-self-centered-parenting-affects-children/
<![CDATA[What To Do After Validating Your Child & They Just Scream Louder]]> https://www.moms.com/what-to-do-after-validating-child-they-just-scream-louder/ When parents acknowledge or validate their child's feelings, they attempt to calm them and let them know that they are being heard. This sometimes helps to regulate emotions. It may let the child know that they are safe, and it's ok to feel how they feel.

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Fri, 02 Sep 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-to-do-after-validating-child-they-just-scream-louder/
<![CDATA[Turning Time-Outs Into A Positive Discipline ]]> https://www.moms.com/turning-time-outs-into-positive-discipline/ With time-outs, parents are either on board with them or completely against them– because time-outs don't work or because they are seen as harmful. There is no in-between. But that is something that makes sense given that to discipline properly, the discipline of choice needs to be a tool that is believed in. This is because discipline is not something that is dabbled in. It is a way to instill behavior that is appropriate while curbing behavior that is anything but.

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Thu, 01 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/turning-time-outs-into-positive-discipline/
<![CDATA["Stable" Family Environments Help Kids Do Better Academically]]> https://www.moms.com/stable-family-environment-helps-kids-do-better-academically/ A study has found that children who live in “stable” families do better in school. School is essential for the healthy growth and development of children. It is not just a place to learn academically, but socially, and children can really find their place in school with their peers and colleagues.

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Wed, 31 Aug 2022 12:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/stable-family-environment-helps-kids-do-better-academically/
<![CDATA[When A Mother Loves Her Child, But Doesn't Accept Their Sexual Identity]]> https://www.moms.com/when-mother-loves-child-but-doesnt-accept-sexual-identity/ Things are different in today's world. Things are more open and freely spoken about. Gender identity is one of those things. It is common for kids to be curious about their identity, now that they can discuss these things and learn more about them, kids are able to find out where they fit in. This can be confusing and scary for everyone involved.

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Tue, 30 Aug 2022 17:00:14 GMT https://www.moms.com/when-mother-loves-child-but-doesnt-accept-sexual-identity/
<![CDATA[What You Might Not Be Prepared For With A Teenage Boy]]> https://www.moms.com/what-mom-might-not-be-prepared-for-with-teenage-boy/ If you currently have a teenage boy in your life, you might be asking yourself, "What exactly is going on here, and will I survive?" Teenage boys' brains are not fully developed yet at this point, they are nearly driven by hormonal and biological changes alone. Puberty. This accounts for the erratic mood swings and the massive fluctuation in impulse control.

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Fri, 26 Aug 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-mom-might-not-be-prepared-for-with-teenage-boy/
<![CDATA[What Parents Can Learn From Their Teens]]> https://www.moms.com/what-parents-learn-from-teens/ Parents and their teenagers can be an interesting combination. While teens are at that age where they think they know everything, moms know better and have been there, done that. Moms were once teenagers themselves, and after we've been separated from those years, we can look back and reflect on how it was back then. Maybe you were more carefree and incredibly naive as a teen. Or maybe you were rebellious with a healthy distaste for authority.

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Wed, 24 Aug 2022 13:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/what-parents-learn-from-teens/
<![CDATA[Big Difference Between Supportive Parenting & Over-Parenting]]> https://www.moms.com/difference-between-supportive-parenting-and-over-parenting/ There are a few different types of parenting. Nowhere is it written which is right and which is wrong. Two of these types are, over-parenting, also fondly referred to as helicopter parenting; and supportive parenting, also known as authoritative parenting.

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Sun, 21 Aug 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/difference-between-supportive-parenting-and-over-parenting/
<![CDATA[Family Stress Linked To Problematic Behavior Online]]> https://www.moms.com/family-stress-linked-to-problematic-behavior-online/ A new study has found that family stress is linked to problematic behavior online. It is no surprise to any parent out there that children are spending a lot of time online, more than any generation has before them. While technology can have some great benefits, there are also some pretty big negatives as well.

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Thu, 11 Aug 2022 17:01:12 GMT https://www.moms.com/family-stress-linked-to-problematic-behavior-online/
<![CDATA[The Differences Between Millennial Moms & Gen Z Moms]]> https://www.moms.com/differences-between-millennial-gen-z-moms/ Most of you reading this are more likely to be millennial moms deep in the throes of raising kids from babies to teenagers. You came of age in the late 90s and 2000s. You rocked out to Britney Spears and the Red Hot Chili Peppers, and remember having to watch commercials on TV. It was a different world for millennial moms as they grew up and the unique experience of remembering a time before the internet and the time after.

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Thu, 11 Aug 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/differences-between-millennial-gen-z-moms/
<![CDATA[Why Parents Should Focus On Executive Function]]> https://www.moms.com/executive-function-explained-why-parents-need-to-focus-with-children/ The learning processes a child goes through from birth, to toddlerhood, adolescence, all the way to adulthood is called development. Skills are learned and then combined to develop more complex tasks such as walking, talking and playing.

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Thu, 11 Aug 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/executive-function-explained-why-parents-need-to-focus-with-children/
<![CDATA[The Dangers Of Being An Overprotective Parent]]> https://www.moms.com/dangers-being-overprotective-parent/ Overprotective parents are seen as the type of parents who at times need to allow their child some room to breathe every once in a while. No one likes being told how to parent, and it can actually be quite offensive to many moms to get unsolicited advice. We must tread lightly when talking with another parent about what we do in our own home because even if a mom has different rules for her kids, it doesn't mean they're wrong.

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Wed, 10 Aug 2022 14:00:14 GMT https://www.moms.com/dangers-being-overprotective-parent/
<![CDATA[10 Ways To Discipline Kids To Be Better Behaved]]> https://www.moms.com/discipline-kids-to-be-better-behaved-tips/ We all want to have well-behaved children that listen to us and never push back against our wishes. While some moms may have gotten lucky with kids just like that, there are others who have kids who naturally push boundaries and need to be disciplined quite often. If a behavior isn't changing and is putting stress on your family, it may be time to look into some new discipline strategies.

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Tue, 09 Aug 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/discipline-kids-to-be-better-behaved-tips/
<![CDATA[Exploring "Parentification" (& The Impact It Can Have On Families)]]> https://www.moms.com/exploring-parentification-impact-on-families/ The world of parenting and child development is so vast and expansive that work may never be done on looking at how it works, and what the benefits and dangers can be for parenting a certain way.

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Sun, 07 Aug 2022 15:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/exploring-parentification-impact-on-families/
<![CDATA[Parent’s Drinking May Lead To Food Addiction In Children]]> https://www.moms.com/parents-drinking-may-lead-to-food-addiction-in-children/ A new study has found that parents drinking may lead to food addiction in children. Child development has always been interesting, and there have always been experts out there working to see how pieces connect to aid child development, or hinder it. It is always fascinating to see how parenting can connect with how a child develops and grows.

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Sat, 06 Aug 2022 12:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/parents-drinking-may-lead-to-food-addiction-in-children/
<![CDATA[When Should A Stepmom Disengage?]]> https://www.moms.com/when-should-stepmom-disengage/ It can be complicated to be a stepmom, and it is not an easy road to navigate. When you enter into a relationship with a partner who has children already, it can be hard to know how to act. You want to love the children like they are your own, and you likely do, but you want to make sure you don’t cross any boundaries.

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Thu, 04 Aug 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/when-should-stepmom-disengage/
<![CDATA[The Perfect Age To Start Taking Kids To The Movies]]> https://www.moms.com/age-start-kids-movies/ Going out to see a movie in theaters is a fun family activity that moms can't wait to do for the first time with their kids. Though we have the ability to watch many movies at home thanks to streaming services, but going out to see one is a whole experience. There's nothing like that giant screen, buttery popcorn, and big comfy seats to see the latest blockbuster film with other fans. But what is the perfect age to take your kid to the movie for the first time?

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Tue, 02 Aug 2022 15:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/age-start-kids-movies/
<![CDATA[Young Adults Facing More Pressure From Parents Than Past Generations]]> https://www.moms.com/young-adults-facing-more-pressure-from-parents-than-past-generations/ A study has found that young adults are now facing more pressure from their parents that past generations have. As parents, we try and do everything we can to support our child, but we know that we also may have to give them small pushes in the right direction. We know, deep down, that it is for their benefit.

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Mon, 01 Aug 2022 14:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/young-adults-facing-more-pressure-from-parents-than-past-generations/
<![CDATA[Children Need Consistent Parenting Behavior For Brain Development]]> https://www.moms.com/children-need-consistent-parenting-behavior-for-brain-development/ It has been determined that children need consistent parenting behavior for their brain development. Child development is a topic that is being studied every day, all over the world, and despite how much we already know they are learning more and more. They are learning how their environment shapes who they become, and how it differs from their biological and genetic makeup. When looking at brain development, there are several factors that can help shape it, and parents have a role to play in it.

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Thu, 30 Jun 2022 11:00:13 GMT https://www.moms.com/children-need-consistent-parenting-behavior-for-brain-development/