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Things We Need To Normalize About Motherhood

Deb Goncalves — Thu, 17 Nov 2022 14:30:12 GMT

Motherhood is challenging, and this struggle may look different to every mom, but it is there. No mom can say if they “have it the hardest,” because we don’t know the struggles of another, and it would be unfair to turn it into a competition.

New Hobbies Moms Can Do When Coping With Empty Nest Syndrome

Deb Goncalves — Sun, 13 Nov 2022 18:00:13 GMT

When our children are young, and running around the house, it is hard to imagine a time when there is no screaming, loud music, or little mouths asking for snacks all day. However, that day comes for almost every mom out there. The day when your child is older, and they leave the nest.

What Moms Can Do To Gain (Or Regain) Their Self-Confidence

Deb Goncalves — Sun, 13 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT

It is not easy to be a mom. In fact, motherhood may be one of the most challenging things anyone can do, and that is because it is a job that has to be constantly on. Mom always has to know where her kids are, what they are doing, what groceries they need, who needs a doctor's appointment, and so much more.

Moments Moms Of Girls Have Been The Proudest

Deb Goncalves — Sun, 13 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

There is always pride in a mother’s heart when she is thinking about her children. She thinks about how far they have come, how much they have grown, and how hard she has worked to get them there. While this is always true for every mother and child, there are certain moments that always stand out.

Things To Gave Up For The Sake Of Your Marriage

Deb Goncalves — Sat, 12 Nov 2022 17:00:13 GMT

It takes a lot of hard work for a marriage to work, and that is no secret. Both parties have to be willing to work together to make sure that the relationship thrives. If they have children, they are likely to do this to make sure their children have both parents in a harmonious home.

Ways Moms Can Deal With Gossip

Deb Goncalves — Sat, 12 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

If you ask any mom if they remember high school, they may remember certain things, but most of it is a blur. It is likely that they remember the “mean” moments, times when they were bullied, when they embarrassed themselves, or when they were the topic of some gossip.

Ways To Connect With Your Child Before Bedtime (Because Moms Are Busy Before That)

Deb Goncalves — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 18:00:13 GMT

Bedtime can seem like such a relief for moms. It’s finally the time to slow down and relax. And once kids are asleep, you can enjoy some quiet time doing a chore, catching up on your favorite Hulu show (or Disney movie), or maybe even some time for a face mask and wine. But with the relief, a little stress may peak through.

Your Child's Behavior Isn't Intentional, You're Just Stressed, Mama

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 14:00:12 GMT

The pressures on mothers these days are endless. Health, cooking, cleaning, finances, work, and everything their child or children need on top of it. Mothers aren't getting enough sleep either, according to WebMD. Bottle it all up, and you have a prescription for stress, irritability, and snapping at the kids.

Why Some Moms Never Get Sick

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 13:00:13 GMT

Being a mom gives you superhuman powers to fight germs. Not really, but it may seem like that to some. Nurses, doctors, and teachers often fall into the same group. Children love to share when it comes to germs. They bring an assortment of bacteria home to mom. While moms do sometimes get sick, it seems as though they are resistant to a lot.

Why Mom Needs To “Anchor, Breathe & Engage” When Feeling Overwhelmed With Motherhood

Marah Vaillancourt — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 17:00:14 GMT

No matter how you slice it, parenting can be overwhelming. The responsibilities feel like they keep piling up, and it's common to feel like you can never get ahead. We constantly read about the importance of self-care, but the strategies available seem either too expensive or too time-consuming! Mothers need a way to find a sense of calm that isn't time-consuming or cost-intensive.

Single Moms Need To Praise Themselves, Here's Why

Marah Vaillancourt — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 16:00:15 GMT

The past few decades have shown a rapid increase in single-parent homes. In the United States, 24 million children live in single-parent homes. Though it probably isn't surprising to hear that 86% of single-parent homes are headed by mothers. While single-parenting is becoming more common and socially accepted than it was in past generations, it hasn't gotten any easier to do. In fact, single-mothers dealing with the aftermath of a global pandemic and rising prices due to inflation, it's incredibly stressful to be a single-parent today. Single mothers face:

How Millennial Moms Can Break Away From Their Authoritarian Parents

Sarah Zellner — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 15:00:15 GMT

The median age for millennials in 2022 is around 33 years old. Making the growing portion of this generation currently becoming first-time parents. Millennial Mom is a term being thrown around a lot, as well as Millennial Dad. Typically, when they are referred to it is about something they think needs to be changed. After all, that is what millennials are known for. Trying to change the rules and create new norms.

Trying To Manage Everyone's Needs & Your Own? Here Are Some Tips For Overwhelmed Mamas

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 12:00:13 GMT

It's only a matter of time before a mother feels overwhelmed by the stress of a family sitting on her shoulders. It is constant. Moms are needed for things at nearly every given moment by someone, and if it's not another person, it's themselves. Physically, mentally, emotionally, it's all demanding. It's a cycle that, like the washing cycle for all the laundry, seems never-ending.

What Actually Happens When Mom Doesn't Yell At Her Kids?

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT

All moms yell at least once in their lives. They feel overstimulated, overwhelmed, or angry, and raise their voices. It may feel like it solves something in that particular moment, but it rarely solves the situation. It doesn't correct any behavior, that is; it may just quiet everyone down and make them obedient for a short while.

Uplifting Tips For Moms Who Feel Isolated & Like No One Gets It

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 13:00:13 GMT

Whether you are a new mom, seasoned mom, stay-at-home mom, or working mom, all aspects of motherhood can become isolating at one point or another. On nearly a daily basis moms have to pick their battles wisely and have their patience pushed past the limit of any non-parent. It is hard, bottom line. Most moms live in a state of exhaustion they aren't even aware of because it's been their normal for so long.

How To Get Your Teen Son Excited About Creating A Bucket List With You As A Single Mom

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 15:00:13 GMT

Single mothers looking to strengthen their bond with their teenage sons might consider making a bucket list with them. Granted, it's not always easy to carve out a lot of alone time with teens, and they aren't always thrilled to hang out with their moms, but it's important to maintain a connection.

How To Bond With An Introverted Child When You’re An Extroverted Mom

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Some parents can't relate. They don't have children that run wild and free, talking or yelling non-stop all over the place. Other parents might say that is not normal, they should see a doctor, or even diagnose them themselves. Having a child who is quiet and reserved, more hesitant than other children, does not typically need to see a doctor. It just simply means, they are introverted.

At-Home Bonding Activities For Single Moms With Multiple Children

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 11:00:13 GMT

These days it can be a hectic scene on the home front for single moms. Once school is out and work is done, there are kids' activities, errands to run, dinner to make, homework, and boom! It's bedtime. University of Iowa research shows that a strong parent/child relationship is essential for children's well-being, behavior, and future success in life. With such a chaotic schedule, it can be hard for single moms to do everything, and to make time to bond.

How To Deal When Mom Feels Like She Is Spreading Herself Thin

Jessica Weisenbach — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 13:00:12 GMT

Being a mother is the most amazing gift. The joy and pride a mother takes in raising her children cannot be quantified or fully explained. It is also a huge responsibility and the hardest job. Motherhood can be mentally, physically, and emotionally draining. According to Psychology Today, compassion fatigue sets in when the positive experience of caring for others becomes exhausting.

How Moms Can Self-Soothe With Their Five Senses

Kirstie Marie Landry — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Parenting can be very challenging, especially for millennial mothers. Raising children can be great, but it can also be terrifying and stressful at times. Furthermore, being a parent often leaves a person very little time to take care of themselves. Nevertheless, that is something that they need to find time to do.

Why Most Moms Are Apprehensive Of The Tween Years

Jessica Weisenbach — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 13:00:12 GMT

The tween years are filled with changes for kids emotionally, mentally, and physically. It's normal for moms to feel apprehensive about how those changes might affect their relationship with their child and parenting overall. Tweens begin to seek independence from their parents while focusing more on friendships and interests. This release of control can feel scary for moms as their tween spends more time outside the home. It's also normal to feel emotional when acknowledging your child is no longer your baby, but tweens do still need their moms.

Sometimes I Wish I Can Fast-Forward To When My Kids Are Older

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 12:00:13 GMT

I think every mom has thoughts that run through her mind, and when she thinks of them, she is immediately filled with guilt. Mom guilt is an evil little monster, and it comes when you are least expecting it. We are so quick to forget that moms are human too, and this means that they can have thoughts about motherhood that society frowns upon, and this is where stigma is born.

Why Are Moms Expected To Tend To Household Chores?

Larissa Marulli — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 11:00:13 GMT

No matter what, it seems that moms get stuck with doing the brunt of the household chores. Why is that? For mothers with opposite-gender partners, women will be the primary caretakers of the home even if they work outside the home just like their husbands do. Moms who work full-time come home at the end of the day just to do more work. Motherhood is well known to be exhausting and whether you're in your first month or twentieth year, you know it never ends.

How I Am Getting Through Motherhood Being A Highly Sensitive Person

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 23 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

I believe motherhood is different when you are a highly sensitive person (HSP). Becoming a mom sharpened me. I was sensitive, and I became more sensitive. It added to the already heavy burden of carrying my own emotions and feeling so much of the world around me. Kids are loud, they are messy, they want to cling on to you. This was sometimes very overwhelming for me. I craved quiet time more than you can imagine.

These Are My Best & Worst Days As A Mom, I Hope You Can Relate

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 22 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

Motherhood is a struggle. From the moment you bring a child into the world, nothing is the same. Motherhood changes you. I never knew I wanted a child, until I had my first. I never understood the love that develops between a mother and child. I didn't have that growing up, and if there were moments of it, I either failed to see it or don't remember.

I Knew My Husband Was The One When He Genuinely Told Me He'd Be There

Larissa Marulli — Sat, 22 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT

I knew my husband was the one the night I found out I was pregnant. I'm sure this sounds weird to many of you but bare with me. My pregnancy was a surprise for both of us and in a scandalous fashion, we weren't in a relationship when I got pregnant with our first child. To be quite honest, I was a bit of a wreck after discovering I was unexpectedly pregnant. I was young and I had plans. I was nowhere near ready to have a baby.

How To Handle Criticism About Your Child From Another Mom

Ashley Wehrli — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

There is a weird phenomenon that happens in motherhood. That is that mom will spend hours, days, and weeks criticizing her parenting, and what she is doing wrong, but the moment someone says something about her parenting or her child, she knows it is not acceptable.

What To Do When You Find Yourself Saying, “But My First Child Didn’t Do That”

Jessica Tucker — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

It is human nature to make comparisons. This is done, according to Mind, Body and Soul to provide a "baseline for where we are in life, and where we want to be." Comparison allows people to make plans for change and is a unit of measure to tell if there has been any personal "progress" or growth as a result of that change. Something that can be healthy for individuals to do but not for parents to do with their kids. This is why when parents find themselves saying, "But my first child did not do that," they need to nip it in the bud. This will ensure that comparative comments are not said so that self-esteem remains high, mental health is not damaged, and relationships between siblings who are friends are not compromised.

How I Helped My Kids Get Through Their Learning Difficulties

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

As a mother of four boys, I've come across quite a few different struggles concerning them. Some days it seems as if it's not one thing, it's another. However, the way I parent, which is not perfect by any means, is I fix things. I am a fixer. This is all well and good in certain circumstances, but I do really need to pull back the reigns once in a while.

Different “Me Time” Favorites From Real Moms

Larissa Marulli — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT

As busy moms, 'me time' is a must, but it's really hard to actually find that time to be alone and decompress. 'Me time' isn't going to the store without kids and me time isn't watching TV at night when your kids are asleep. 'Me time' for moms is a complete, temporary escape from the responsibilities of motherhood where you can't be easily bothered. Mothers don't get enough time alone and enough time to actually rest. Moms are stressed and deserve a real break every once in a while.

What To Do When Another Mom Thinks You’re Her Babysitter

Jessica Tucker — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 16:00:14 GMT

Moms want to lend a helping hand to other moms because they are acutely aware of how tough motherhood is. This could be helping out getting kids to school. It could be grabbing an item or two while at the grocery store because another mom just has too much going on to make it. Babysitting on occasion for free because childcare costs are astronomical may even be offered. It may quickly can go from being an act of kindness to being expected consistently.

Part-Time Jobs For Moms

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

There are many reasons why a mom may want to get a part-time job. Her family may need some extra money, or she may just want to get out of the house and have some adult interaction sometimes. This may be commonly seen when mom has all of her children in school, and she gets a bit bored during the day.

Having 4 Kids Has Helped Me See Life Differently & I’m Grateful

Sarah Zellner — Wed, 19 Oct 2022 16:01:13 GMT

I have four children. Only 14% of Americans have four children, so I guess I'm medium rare. All four of my children are boys, so when people say, "Boymom," it's me. They are talking about me. No, in all seriousness, I cannot imagine having girls. I don't know what I would do with them. I am all boy all the time. That doesn't make me better than anyone, let's be clear, it's all I know.

What I Miss About Being Kid-Free, But Enjoying Motherhood Nonetheless

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 19 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

There are times in my life when I stop and think about the time before I had children. As some moms may relate to, this seems impossible at times. Even though I have only been a mom for (almost) 7 years, I find it hard to think about life before them. This is in both the best ways and the worst ways. I, of course, cannot imagine my life without all of my children, but I miss my life. I have fleeting moments of missing my child-free life, and even though they pass as quickly as they come, I am still left with guilt.

Being A Mom Of A Tween Has Changed My Life

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

Becoming the mother to a tween boy was not what I expected. In case there is a question, kids between 8 and 12 are called tweens. They are in between being a little child and a teenager. Maybe it would have been different if I had a girl, but I have four wild, crazy, wonderful boys.

It's Not Difficult Taking Care Of My Child, It's Hard Doing Everything Else While Being A Mom

Larissa Marulli — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT

I've been a mom long enough that I no longer find it too difficult to take care of my kids, but I find it really hard to do anything else in my adult life.I struggle to make meals every single night and always forget to wash my face. I easily fall behind on our laundry and can barely bring myself to fold it within a reasonable time frame.

How To Be A Supportive Dance Mom (Without Pressuring Your Child)

Ashley Wehrli — Mon, 17 Oct 2022 17:00:14 GMT

There are children all across the country who are in dance. Dance is a great activity for children. It lets them be creative, and it makes sure to get them some physical activity in their day. They can express how they are feeling inside through dance, they can find friends who have similar interests, and they can get some physical activity.

Helpful Tips For Easily Overstimulated Moms

Jessica Tucker — Sat, 15 Oct 2022 12:00:13 GMT

Before motherhood, finding time to take a break from the day or unwind at night was easy to do. The time that women had was their own to enjoy as they pleased. As such, taking long, hot leisurely baths may have been the key to keeping from being overstimulated. Perhaps, it was getting a massage. Maybe it was grabbing coffee or lunch with friends.

Motherhood: Moving From Fearful Parenting To Confident Parenting

Jessica Tucker — Fri, 14 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

Motherhood is hard. Anyone who claims differently has either never been a mother or is not being honest with themselves. This is because while motherhood is one of the most rewarding jobs women will ever have, the amount of pressure that women put on themselves to make everything perfect and to be able to do it all for everyone at all times is not sustainable. As such, women begin to forget how to be instinctual mothers. They let fear rule them instead. And it is not until mothers begin to see just how good of a job they are doing when they trust themselves that anxiety begins to melt away.

What To Do When You Feel Unseen & Unappreciated As A Mom

Jessica Tucker — Wed, 12 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

Moms hold quite the resumes. They are the nurturers, the caregivers, the chefs, the teachers, the ones who maintain household schedules, and the chauffeurs. Moms do all of this without batting an eye and do it with grace. Moms do it to ensure their kids get the best opportunities even if that means putting themselves on the back burner. And there is nothing asked of anyone in exchange for tackling all of these duties. Just a bit of appreciation, every once in a while, to remind moms that what they do matters and that they are seen. Because far too often women feel unseen and unappreciated as moms. Something that leaves them struggling with how to navigate these feelings while trying to be there for everyone and find some happiness all at the same time.

Things Stay-At-Home Moms Want Their Husband's To Know

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 11 Oct 2022 16:01:14 GMT

Motherhood is always challenging, and there is never one type of “motherhood” that is more challenging than another. When we turn motherhood into a competition, no one gets the support they need, and while neither one is “harder” than the other, they all come with their own challenges and difficulties.

What To Do If You Feel Like No One Respects You As A Mom

Jessica Tucker — Tue, 11 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

Mothers give their all when it comes to caring for their children. As such, it can feel like a slap in the face when mothers love, provide for and put their heart and soul into raising their kids, only to feel their children have no idea of the concept of respect for them. It can be a gradual thing or sudden acts that are showing a lack of respect. Something that is only compounded when partners do not recognize the disrespect happening or brush it off as just a stage that kids go through. And when all of this happens, women need to figure out what to do when they feel like no one respects them as a mom.

'World Mental Health Day': Self-Care Ideas For Any Mom

Kirstie Marie Landry — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 15:01:12 GMT

According to World Health Organization, October 10th is World Mental Health Day. The purpose of World Mental Health Day is to raise awareness about mental health problems. Many people, including mothers, deal with some mental health issues. Furthermore, dealing with those issues while trying to take care of kids can be rough. But there are some things moms can do to take care of their mental health and make things a bit easier for themselves.

The Transition From Motherhood To Grandmotherhood

Kirstie Marie Landry — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 14:00:12 GMT

Becoming a grandmother and becoming a mother are both big things, but they are very different from one another. For example, having a baby introduces new parents to lots of responsibilities that they did not have before. Suddenly, they have to worry about taking care of a new little boy or girl, as opposed to taking care of just themselves.

Encouraging Tips For Moms Trying So Hard Not To Have A Meltdown

Jessica Tucker — Sat, 08 Oct 2022 16:00:12 GMT

Anyone who believes that motherhood is a walk in the park has never been a mother. While it is one of the most fulfilling jobs that anyone could ever have, it is not without its challenges. It is a job that the entire heart and soul is put into and as a result of this, it can take every drop of patience women have. Because of this, mothers can have the occasional mommy meltdown. A moment where moms breakdown, no longer able to remain calm and cool under pressure. And when this happens, there is a great amount of guilt because moms are so hard on themselves. This is why moms do their best to keep breakdowns from happening. Something that can hinge on just the right encouraging tips given at the right time to moms who are trying so hard not to have a meltdown.

How I Prioritize My Mental Health As A Mom Of Three

Ashley Wehrli — Sat, 08 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

It has taken me a while to understand just how important mental health is. I was born in the 80s, and mental health was still not talked about as much as it is now. It was not widely accepted, and there were a lot of stigmas attached to it. While many of these challenges still exist, it is easy to see how the world has changed, and how far it has come.

Anxiety Signs Vs. Normal Stress (Moms Edition)

Ashley Wehrli — Sat, 08 Oct 2022 13:00:13 GMT

Motherhood is a lot to take, and it goes through seasons that are harder than others. Every mom is going to have challenges that they have to face, and these challenges are going to be different for every mom. How they handle them will also be different, and that is one of the most beautiful things about motherhood, the differences.

Tips For Moms Wanting To Be A Less Restrictive Parent

Ashley Wehrli — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

There seem to be a million different ways to be a parent, and it can be hard (if not impossible) to say which one is the “best.” That is because every mom has to do what is best for her children, and her family. Since every family dynamic is different, this is going to vary.

Moms Continue To Have An Important Role After Kids Turn 18 Years Old

Larissa Marulli — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 13:00:12 GMT

Being a mom is a lifelong commitment and even after your kids turn 18 years old, they will still need you and seek out your advice and love. Young adults these days still depend on their parents and your role as mom will forever evolve the older your children get. The economy can definitely be to blame for how many young adults still depend on their parents compared to those in past generations. There's also been a huge culture shift where adolescence is much more cherished and kids are encouraged to enjoy their youth and innocence much longer than in the past.

Why Moms Need To Stop Acting Like Everything Is Okay

Larissa Marulli — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT

Any mother reading this right now has been shocked by the emotional and mental toll of motherhood. Raising kids, whether you have one or seven, is no walk in the park. We love our children immensely, and they bring us so much joy, but they also bring us so much stress and overall life messiness. If raising kids was just loving them, it would be easy, but motherhood is doing all the things even when you don't want to, and we need to stop acting like everything is ok with all of us because it isn't.

Perfect Mother Cult Has To End Because I Can’t Get There

Larissa Marulli — Thu, 06 Oct 2022 11:00:12 GMT

Nearly everywhere I turn on social media, I see perfect mothers with immaculate homes, well-done makeup, and well-dressed children smiling for the cameras. They do synchronized dances and show off their home decor ideas, and they never raise their voices. They also demonstrate their cooking skills and teach us how to prepare healthy school lunches, as well as give tips on how to organize our kids' playroom. These moms are all over Instagram giving hacks on how to do motherhood as effortlessly as them and many of us wonder how they make it look so easy.

Unbelievably Amazing Facts About Mothers

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 04 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

Moms are amazing, there is no doubting that. They work full time from the second their children are born. Some take on jobs on top of motherhood, too. They run the house, make meals, clean up, and do laundry. It seems their tasks are endless sometimes.

Trending 2022 Fall Outfits For Moms On-The-Go

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 04 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

Being a mom might mean trading in your heels for sneakers, and crop tops for hoodies; but that doesn't mean it can't be cute. If anyone can rock a messy bun and leggings, it's a mom. This fall will be no different, because the good news is, leggings are still trending!

Phenomenal Facts About A Mother & Son Bond

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

The relationship between any child and their mother is so special and so important. However, with a son, things are a bit different. The bond mothers tend to grow with their sons is something that cannot be explained by those who have it, and cannot be understood by those who haven't.

Working Moms Unknowingly Help Daughters Succeed At Work In The Future

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 11:01:12 GMT

In years past, there were concerns that women who chose to work were somehow negatively impacting their children by sending them to daycare when they were young and aftercare as they became school-aged children. Couple those thoughts with the massive amount of mom guilt women felt by going off to the office versus staying at home to raise the kids, and it is no wonder that women struggled and continue to struggle with their choice to return to their careers after having children. But it is time for women to shake off that guilt. Because not only are children of working moms turning out just fine, but working moms are unknowingly helping their daughters to succeed at work in the future.

What "Mommy, Play With Me" Really Means

Ashley Wehrli — Sun, 02 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

Being a mom is exhausting, and that is because there are so many demands when it comes to motherhood. Mom has to make sure everyone has what they need, and this can mean food, hygiene, and love. There is also the constant need to make sure the house is in running order, that groceries are done, and that medical appointments are made.

How To Be Involved In Multiple Kids’ Lives As An Overwhelmed Single Mom

Larissa Marulli — Sat, 01 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT

A single mom with multiple kids can feel herself being stretched very thin. Every child needs ample attention from their mom and when these kids have their own busy schedules, single moms can find it nearly impossible to be everywhere they need to be. They can also struggle to give out all the attention and emotional needs that all kids require. Tough choices need to be made, and it's just a reality that one of your kids may feel left out from time to time. Single moms really do need to prioritize their time in order to make the best of it.

How To Work From Home & Help Your Children With Homework

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 30 Sep 2022 16:00:13 GMT

Moms who work from home are sometimes viewed as stay-at-home moms. This is not the case at all. Working from home doesn't always mean selling exercise programs or oils. There are a lot of very talented women out there who are making big moves in their careers right from their living room.

Lines Stepmoms Shouldn't Cross With Her Stepkids

Jessica Tucker — Fri, 30 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

Becoming part of a blended family can be a difficult road to travel for some. Between kids thinking that their stepmom is a replacement for their mother, that the stepmom will take any and all time that kids were supposed to spend with their dad away from them, or that the stepmom will try to be an instant parent is more than a lot of kids are able to digest from the get-go. But with time, if stepmothers are willing to take advice from others, build a friendship with their partners' kids, and respect the kids' mothers, there is no reason a positive relationship cannot be built. This is something that will never come to fruition if stepmoms instead choose to cross lines with their stepkids, making for a chaotic and hostile living environment instead.

What A Stepmom Wishes Her Husband Understood

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 15:00:14 GMT

There are a million ways to be a family, and it is becoming clear that families really do come in all shapes and sizes. Co-parenting can be challenging, and there can be other factors that make it a bit more so, and this could be when a parent remarries. When a parent remarries, they introduce another adult figure into their children’s lives and the lives of their co-parent.

How Mom's Anger Impacts Her Kids

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Moms are human too, and this can be forgotten by a lot of people. There are those who think that moms always have to be happy, and perfect and that they will always have a handle on their emotions. After all, it is important for the children.

Tips For Moms Who Want To Start Their Own Business

Larissa Marulli — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 11:00:13 GMT

In an ever-evolving working world, moms need to find ways to make a living that works more for them as parents. Starting their own business is one way for moms to take control of their own careers and schedules. However, before taking that leap, moms need to make some informed decisions and the right choices for themselves. Starting a business takes a lot of work and motivation to achieve success. Moms have a lot on their plates but when they're stuck in a job that isn't fulfilling, starting their own business and being their own boss could be the answer they're looking for.

I Grew Up In A Wealthy School District. My Kids Have The Opposite, Here's Why I Prefer Theirs

Larissa Marulli — Mon, 26 Sep 2022 11:00:13 GMT

When I was a toddler, my parents moved from a large city on the east coast to the western US in search of a more suburban lifestyle with better schools that they hoped would have less crowding and more money. We settled in a large city which my mom had read about in newspapers about its beauty and family benefits. I attended school in a small district tucked in the corner of this large city. Every other city in the district had tens of thousands of students whereas mine had just around 5,000.

How Moms Gaslight Themselves & How To Stop

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 25 Sep 2022 17:00:13 GMT

Gaslighting. The term itself comes from a 1938 play, "Gas Light" (which was turned into a movie in 1944), where a husband manipulates his wife to make her think she's actually losing her mind by denying he was hiding objects, turning down the gaslights every night, stating she was imagining things and essentially, going crazy. This is all so he can commit her to a mental institution and steal her inheritance.

Having Excessive Mom Guilt Might Say This About You

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 24 Sep 2022 17:01:13 GMT

Mothers work very hard and put a lot of energy into being a parent. It should be a good feeling and full of love. It is, but not always. The shocking reality of motherhood is mom guilt. It's a beast. Moms tend to beat themselves up and feel like complete failures at times.

What Mothers Of Teens Secretly Love About Them

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 24 Sep 2022 15:01:13 GMT

Mothers of teens may have a few choice words to describe what they dislike about their child's teenage years. Maybe all those eye rolls, their lack of listening skills, disrespectful attitude, or the silent treatment one too many times have just rubbed them the wrong way.

Chronic Illness & Motherhood: The Struggle Is Real

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 24 Sep 2022 13:00:12 GMT

Being a mom is hard work. There is no getting around that. When mom gets sick, things can tend to fall apart. Well, they get done, just not with moms loving special touches. Being sick can cause a lot of anxiety for moms, too, for that very reason. It's often joked about on social media, that moms don't get sick, or can't get sick, because they don't have time.

I'm Not A "Crazy" Paranoid Mom, My Son Just Has A Hidden Illness

Ashley Wehrli — Fri, 23 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

I have three children, a 6-year-old, a 4-year-old, and an almost 3-year-old. If I stood all of my children up beside each other and asked you to pick out which one had a medical illness, you wouldn’t be able to tell me. You could guess, and you may guess right, but it would only be by luck, and not because you can actually tell that something is wrong with one of my children.

The Biggest Difference Between Boy Moms & Girl Moms

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 23 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT

There is no exact science on the difference between boy moms and girl moms, or is there? Aside from the fact that boy moms have only boys, and girl moms have only girls, there are some other key differences. A lot of people might be thinking about the frustration level of a boy mom trying to shop for her son[s] when 90% of the kids department is devoted to girls. It's more than that, though, too.

Moms, Are You Angry, Mad, Or Just Overstimulated? Know The Difference

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 22 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

A very unrecognized truth of motherhood is that it is very overstimulating. Sensory overload is when one or many of your senses become overstimulated. Your senses are taking in more information than your brain can process at one time. Overstimulation might look like being overwhelmed, exhausted, and/or angry.

What Not To Say To A Mother Of A Child With Special Needs

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 22 Sep 2022 13:00:12 GMT

Moms of special needs children are a different kind of "mama bear." They are fierce beyond measure, unbelievably steadfast, and extremely protective of their young. They didn't choose the journey they are on. They were not gifted it by God. They had children and those children need them just a little more.

The Different Types Of Moms

Sarah Zellner — Wed, 21 Sep 2022 15:00:13 GMT

When women have children, they become moms. They might be a boy mom, a girl mom, a twin mom, or a mom of both. It seems pretty simple. However, in today's society, there are so many classifications of moms. Motherhood has taken on a life of its own and has since multiplied itself into tiny sub-categories.

Secrets Working Moms Want The World To Know

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 20 Sep 2022 13:20:12 GMT

Back in the day, it used to be standard, and just expected that moms stayed home. Their job was to take care of the house and the kids. These days, a lot of moms work, some because they have to, others because they want to work. They want to contribute to the family financially.

Society Needs To Stop Judging Stay At Home Moms

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 18 Sep 2022 18:00:12 GMT

What is with the judgement of stay-at-home moms? Not just today, but even within the last decade or so. It seems as though people have a view point that staying home and raising children is a copout for women to just sit home and do nothing.

How To Calm Grumpy Mom Attitude For The Sake Of Your Kids

Larissa Marulli — Sun, 18 Sep 2022 11:00:13 GMT

When you're a glass-half-empty kind of mom, it's so easy to also be the grumpy mom. This is the mom who says no to just about everything, gets annoyed easily, and is overwhelmed to the max. Maybe she's working too hard and/or doesn't have enough support.

The Real Reason Mom Relies On Yelling To Get Through Her Kids

Larissa Marulli — Sat, 17 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT

Sometimes moms may yell at their kids way more than they'd like to admit. Yelling comes from both a place of anger and frustration for moms. When a mom yells, it may signal she has reached her breaking point and feels she has no other choice. For other moms, yelling may be something they do all too often and know they need to stop but still can't help it. Yelling at our kids will likely happen to the best of us at some point, and moms are known for yelling at their kids usually out of exasperation.

How To Overcome Losing Your Identity When You're A Stay At Home Mom

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 17:00:12 GMT

Being a stay-at-home mom (SAHM) is one of the most important jobs there is. Granted, there is no paycheck, and it's stacked full of the responsibility to raise another human being. With all those tasks, a SAHM is often the homemaker, too. It can be a lot. For some, it can be all-consuming and overwhelm them to the point of tears, some days.

School Year Just Started & I'm Over Helping My Child With Homework

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 13:00:12 GMT

Listen, I get it, my children need to be in school. School helps them learn, grow and develop in all the important areas of life. They not only learn math and grammar, but they learn social skills and how to interact with peers and other individuals. I also know that I do not have the patience to homeschool, and the reason why is that I cannot even handle homework. Homeschooling moms deserve all the credit because it feels to me like 24/7 homework.

How To Keep Firm Boundaries When You Are A Work From Home Mom

Sarah Zellner — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 14:00:11 GMT

When some people think of work at home moms (WAHM) they may think of all the Facebook posts they see of WAHMs claiming to be at the beach enjoying, "their best life", all while raising tiny humans, keeping house, doing laundry, etc.

How Mom's Can Deal With Constant Fatigue

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 17:00:12 GMT

Fatigue is a feeling of constant tiredness or weakness and can be physical, mental or a combination of both. In some cases, fatigue may be caused by lack of sleep, stress, boredom, or even poor nutrition. In other cases it's more serious and there might be an underlying condition responsible.

How Much Sleep Do Moms In Their 40s Need?

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT

If you asked them, most moms, no matter what age, would probably say they need more sleep. While that may be true, physically, some really do need more sleep.

Fall & Winter Fashion Trends For Moms In 2022

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

Some people think the words mom and fashion don't go together. Those people are wrong, though. Moms used to have a certain style of dressing, that is a fact. "You're a mom, you can't wear that!" And other such thoughts were pushed by society.

Things Moms Of Teens Spend Their Time Doing

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

If you asked a teenager what their mom does all day, who knows what kind of answer you would get. Moms of teens are fully aware their children aren't right but love them anyway. After all, they were young and hormonal once, too.

Intimacy Is Much More Than Sex (& It's Key To A Happy Marriage)

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 09 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

When hearing a couple is in an "Intimate relationship" people tend to think that the couple is sexually involved. Is it just sex, though? Probably not. Relationships need a lot more than a couple of amazing orgasms to stand strong.

Things Every Mom In Their 40s Knows (Or Should Know)

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 09 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT

Moms in their 40s aren't old. They are seasoned vets of motherhood. They know things that younger moms haven't quite learned yet. Even with all the changes in the world today, there will still be certain aspects of motherhood that will always remain. The list below of things every mom in their 40s knows; here is a realistic list of a few of those aspects.

Examples Of "Murphy's Law" In Motherhood

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 09 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

The original backstory of Murphy's Law, oddly, is the opposite of the meaning it has taken on today. According to Improbable Research, it's supposed to be, "If it can happen, it will," not "Whatever can go wrong, will go wrong." It was meant in a motivational sense. Not assuming everything will go wrong but planning in advance for all the things that could go wrong, so they don't.

Mom's Guide To Making It Through Senior Year

Jessica Tucker — Fri, 09 Sep 2022 12:00:12 GMT

It seems just like yesterday that kids were entering kindergarten. Now, here they are. Getting ready to enter their senior year. It is a year that will be unlike any other for both parents and teens alike. Not only is it a time to be looking towards the future, but it is necessary to stay motivated and in the present to get there. Something that is not easy for anyone to do. But with parents knowing that they will likely be saying their goodbyes to their teens after one final year of high school, the year seems to go by quicker than ever before. Making all moms wish they had a guide to make it through senior year.

Yes, You Will Miss The Toddler Stage, Mom (& Here Is Why)

Sarah Zellner — Wed, 07 Sep 2022 13:00:12 GMT

What is the worst age? The terrible Twos? Threenagers? Feisty Four? It's all still up for debate, and most likely always will be. (It's three; the worst age is three) Most moms cannot believe their toddlers can level up as they do, but surprise! They do.

I Didn't Do Anything To Cause My Sons Autism, Why Can't Society Accept That?

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 06 Sep 2022 13:00:12 GMT

In September 2013, I brought my then 3-year-old son into a room full of people to be evaluated. This evaluation was due to the fact that I believed my son had autism. It was a strenuous couple of hours, and when it was over, they said they would be reviewing and making a more formal diagnosis for me. But from what they saw, "Your son does appear to have autism, as well as ADHD, and possibly sensory processing disorder (SPD)."

Things Moms Do That Might Mean They're In A Major Slump

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

Moms are amazing. Most of them do more things behind the scenes their children don't even realize until they go on to have children. Even then, it's hard to comprehend how a woman, a mother, can just keep going while simultaneously doing everything for everyone.

Why Bribes Help Many Moms Stay Sane

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT

When parents want to get their kids motivated, many turn to bribes. While they can be veiled under the term of rewards, most parents interchange the terms bribes and rewards. This is because parents do not go out of their way to reward bad behavior. Something that by definition, bribing is. Most are apt to reward good behavior. And because of this, if used in this way, bribery helps many moms stay sane.

How I'm Navigating Work After 10 Years Of Being A SAHM

Larissa Marulli — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT

I haven't worked outside my home in 10 years. I've been a stay-at-home mom for quite some time and the transition that I was half dreading and half looking forward to is upon me. The last time I worked was in December 2012 when I was nearly 9 months pregnant with my first child. My place of employment was not happy about my pregnancy at all and my male boss was less than thrilled that it was a high-risk pregnancy where I had to go to weekly doctor appointments for multiple weeks, sometimes twice in one week.

Creating Healthier Eating Habits For The Mom Who Survives On Wine & Her Kids' Leftovers

Ashley Wehrli — Sun, 04 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

Motherhood is incredibly busy, and it can be hard for mom to find the time to care for herself. She doesn’t seem to indulge in the same activities that she once did, she seems to go longer without a shower than she ever has, and getting a healthy meal can be challenging.

Non-Stressful Ways To Be Involved In Your Child's School As A Working Mom

Larissa Marulli — Fri, 02 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT

As a working mom, your time is valuable and scarce. Still, your child's school and education are definitely a priority. Even if you want to be more involved at their school, it may not be possible simply because of your work schedule. School-age kids can range from young kindergarten students to teenagers but at every level parental involvement is essential for success on everyone's part. Unfortunately, the funding just isn't there for schools to do it all alone, which is why parental engagement is very important.