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Normalize Divorce For The Children (They’ll Thank You)

Deb Goncalves — Sat, 12 Nov 2022 15:00:12 GMT

While there are many experts who agree that the best home for a child is with both of their parents, we all know that life does not work that way. There are homes that have just one parent, that have parents and caregivers, and homes that have no biological parents present.

Communication After Divorce Should Only Be About This

Ashley Wehrli — Sat, 24 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

A new study has found that the best solution for co-parenting is to only have communication about children or parenting. Co-parenting can be challenging, but most couples agree that it has to work for the sake of the children, and they try their hardest to make sure that it is a peaceful as possible.

Co-Parenting Tips For Moms With Special Needs Kids

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 21 Sep 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Parenting is not easy, and there are variables that can make it easier or harder, and this can be different for every family out there. Parents of special needs children have challenges and struggles that they have to face, and this can sometimes be too much for a couple to manage on their own.

How To Co-Parent With An Ex Who Caused You PTSD

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 20 Aug 2022 12:00:13 GMT

Co-parenting in and of it itself can be tumultuous. When you add Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) to the situation, it brings it to a whole new level. PTSD is not just for soldiers. In fact, it has been around since we have evolved as a species.

Why You Need To Inform Your Child's School About A Restraining Order

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 15 Aug 2022 17:00:13 GMT

Parents may be hesitant to tell their children's schools about restraining orders so that kids are not treated any differently and the belief that there is nothing school administration can do about the restraining order. However, schools are responsible for the health and safety of kids while they are on the premises during school hours. Not telling them there is a restraining order in place negates this from happening. This is why parents need to inform their children's school about a restraining order.

Tips For Teens Dealing With Parents' Divorce

Jessica Tucker — Sun, 14 Aug 2022 14:00:13 GMT

When parents get divorced, it can blindside teens completely. Parents seemed to get along, there was not any fighting, and everything appeared to be status quo in the home. There are also those teens who saw a divorce coming from a mile away and were surprised it took as long as it did to happen. Both ways require teens to cope with the changes that are going to come from their lives as a result of divorce, leading them to look for tips for dealing with parents' divorce, from as many sources as possible.

Online Parenting Skills Programs Can Help Children Cope With Divorce

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 13:00:13 GMT

A new study has found that online parenting skill programs can help children cope with divorce. While mom and dad may realize and accept that parenting separately is what is best for their children, it can still be hard.

"Parental Alienation" Should Be Classified As Child Maltreatment By Law

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 13:00:12 GMT

Experts are sounding the alarm that “parental alienation” should be classified as child abuse, due to the harm it can do to a child. When it comes to child maltreatment, everyone is aware of the basics. That it can be physical, sexual or emotional and it can have lasting negative impacts on children and their health and development. While most parents would never dream of harming their child, there are a lot of children out there who are not so lucky. In an attempt to rescue more children from harm, experts are always looking into child abuse, and even other acts that are not classified as abuse, but should be taken incredibly seriously.

Divorce Twice As Likely If Couples Disagree On These Financial Topics

Jessica Tucker — Fri, 06 Aug 2021 16:00:11 GMT

Divorce is twice as likely if couples disagree on key financial money topics, according to a new study. As such, if couples cannot adopt the same financial strategies and have the same outlook on their financial future, there will be a serious strain on the relationship due to financial stress that in many cases leads the relationship to an end.

Who Gets The Child Tax Credit In Non-Traditional Relationships?

Ashley Wehrli — Mon, 19 Jul 2021 15:30:51 GMT

When it comes to the new child tax credit, there has been some confusion on what will happen in families that are not “traditional,” in divorced families for example. Money is always going to be an issue for families, especially in the current climate of the world. The pandemic brought a lot of struggles to families all across the country, as jobs were lost and families started to wonder how they would be able to make it out and provide for their families. When the government announced a new child tax credit, some families saw this as good news.

Study Finds Divorced Parents To Be Disengaged

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 06 Jul 2021 15:00:45 GMT

A new study has found that parents who are divorced tend to be more disengaged from their children. Divorce rates among families in the US have always been said to be high, and while some may think that the ideal family situation for children is two parents that are married, it is not always that simple. Relationships end for a multitude of reasons, and some may make the argument that children are “better off” being parented by two parents who are happier apart than in a home that feels tense. What always has mattered is how divorced parents treat their children.

When You Experience Gaslighting, It Affects Kids

Michele Pliner — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 18:00:06 GMT

Have you ever been around someone who made you question your own reality? Or made you feel like you were going crazy? Or made you second-guess your own memories?

Addressing Your Children's Sleep Issues During Your Divorce

Ashley Wehrli — Mon, 08 Feb 2021 18:25:32 GMT

A divorce is never an easy thing to go through, and this extends well beyond just the two adults involved. If they have children, the situation needs to be handled with care. A divorce is hard for all involved, but it can be extremely difficult for children. Children are just learning about the world around them, and they can rely on the model that their parents make for them. This is not to say that two people should stay together for their children, but it is important that any issues are taken care of properly to make sure the impact is as easy as it possibly can be.

How Parental Alienation Affects Children

Michele Pliner — Sun, 31 Jan 2021 17:30:44 GMT

Children are not born to hate. When one parent fills a child with hatred toward the other parent, the effects can be devastating. No child deserves to be stripped of a parent’s love. And no loving parent deserves to lose their child.

Identifying A Narcissistic Partner & Dealing With Leaving

Michele Pliner — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 14:30:55 GMT

The term narcissism gets thrown around a lot, but what is it? And how do you know if you’re married to a narcissist?

Are Couples With Daughters More Likely To Divorce?

Megan Glosson — Tue, 19 Jan 2021 22:00:00 GMT

Most divorcing couples don't stop to think about the fact that their children may be related to the dissolution of their marriage. However, there's a growing body of research that says children, and specifically the gender of said children, may be splitting up families.

Parenting Classes Can Help During A Divorce Process

Ashley Wehrli — Mon, 18 Jan 2021 13:00:53 GMT

While everyone would like to live in a world where families are happy and in love, this is not the reality. People everywhere get divorced for multiple reasons, and while it can be hard, this is usually the best decision for everyone involved including children. However, while it may be a great thing for the future, it can be hard to get through. Children are placed in a vulnerable position as they try to navigate the changes that are happening to their family, and the guilt about perceiving that they are somehow the cause.

Conflict Between Divorced Parents Creates Fear Of Abandonment In Kids

Ashley Wehrli — Sun, 17 Jan 2021 14:00:16 GMT

Parents who are divorced have a lot to be concerned about, and it turns out that they need to add abandonment fears to their list. When two people decide to get divorced, it is never an easy decision. It usually involves a lot of conversation and thought between the two people, and this is especially true if there are children involved. Parents need to figure out how to have the conversation with their children, and then they need to figure out custody arrangements and helping their child through the process.

Parallel Parenting With A Narcissistic Ex

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 13 Jan 2021 18:00:45 GMT

There are all types of parenting styles out there, and it can be hard to figure out which one is right for you and your family. This can be even harder when you are separated from your partner, and you are both trying to figure out how to make it work and you each have your own different style and way of doing things. In many instances, co-parenting works well for everyone involved, but in other cases, this is not an option. Sometimes, having both parties trying to communicate and negotiate only causes more friction and they may consider parallel parenting.

Is Parallel Parenting Right For You And Your Ex?

Megan Glosson — Mon, 11 Jan 2021 22:00:00 GMT

Divorce is never easy, no matter how amicable both spouses can be. When kids are involved, though, emotions are often so intense that parents can barely make it through a conversation without fighting. In these high-conflict separations, a traditional co-parenting plan may not work. This is why parallel parenting has become such a buzzword in recent years.

Divorce: Helping A Child Understand Without Bashing Ex

Ashley Wehrli — Fri, 11 Dec 2020 19:30:42 GMT

A divorce is never easy for anyone involved, but it can have a significant impact on children if it not handled correctly. When two people decide to get a divorce, there can be hard feelings and hurtful words shared. However, this is not an environment that a child should be involved with. When it comes to talking to your child about why mom and dad are not together anymore, our language and actions are very important. It is important to make sure that we are not projecting our personal feelings about the other person onto our children.

Jenelle Evans On Her 'Fresh Start' With David Eason

Kelli Catana — Thu, 03 Dec 2020 17:07:56 GMT

Former MTV Teen Mom 2 star Jenelle Evans has reconciled with her husband David Eason. The couple split last year after Eason shot and killed the family's French bulldog after claiming it had tried to bite their 2-year-old daughter. Evans, who was subsequently fired from her hit reality show then left Eason and filed for divorce. The couple has since reconciled and Evans is opening up about their 'fresh start' in a new docuseries called "I Have Something to Say," now streaming on Vyre Living.

Kelly Clarkson Won Custody Of Her Kids, But Her Ex Still Asks For Support Payment

Kelli Catana — Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:00:08 GMT

Kelly Clarkson may have scored a huge victory in her divorce battle with her soon-to-be ex-husband Brandon Blackstock but her ex is still asking for an 'unreasonable' amount in support payments. Clarkson was awarded primary custody of the couple's two children, daughter River Rose, 6, and son Remington Alexander, 4 but Blackstock still filed for almost a half-million dollars in monthly support payments.

How To Survive Co-Parenting During The Holidays: 2020 Edition

Esther Peverley — Mon, 23 Nov 2020 20:00:53 GMT

It's difficult enough to co-parent effectively, but it's something everyone should strive to do if they choose to get a divorce when they have children. Co-parenting has its challenges on a good day, but throw in the holidays and it takes on a whole new level. Add coronavirus to the mix, and you have yourself the perfect ending to a horrible year. But it doesn't have to be that way. You can be separated or divorced and still get along with each other, and you should try to do so, for the sake of your child. Parenting as a cohesive unit is challenging enough, but when two people choose to live apart, it is near impossible. We've got a few tips to help your with co-parenting through the holidays, 2020 style.