Moms.com - child development

Pros & Cons Of Participation Trophies

Deb Goncalves — Tue, 15 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT

A lot of moms know that their children should be in sports or activities. There are many benefits to having your child participate in an activity outside of school. It is a chance for them to get more physical activity, they get to meet new friends, and it helps them learn about winning, losing, and being part of a team.

Looking At "Core Memories" In Children

Deb Goncalves — Sun, 13 Nov 2022 15:10:13 GMT

Every parent wants their child to have happy memories of their childhood, things they can think back to and smile. This is why a lot of work is put into taking great vacations, going on adventures, and making sure holidays are magical. They believe that these events will build ‘happy’ children, and it can shape the rest of their lives.

Valid Reasons Your Child Should Cry When They Get Hurt

Deb Goncalves — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 15:00:13 GMT

When we have children, we know they are going to cry. There are going to be moments that are sad, frustrating and disappointing, and all of these can be worthy of some tears. Even adults cry, and the world is going a long way to normalizing showing emotions and not being ashamed of it.

Things Toddlers Say That Are So Pointless (But Not Really)

Deb Goncalves — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Toddlers can be little philosophers, and they can certainly push moms’ buttons. Their tantrums are completely normal, although we wish they wouldn’t throw them. Tantrums are toddlers’ ways of asserting their individuality and breaking free from any restraints they think the world (parents) has on them. Toddlers are like the prerequisite to teenagers (and they both start with the letter ‘T,’ just like the word tantrums; it all makes sense now!)

Kids Who Need The Most Love Ask In Unloving Ways, But Why?

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 17:00:13 GMT

Behavior is communication, and it is not uncommon for children to use behavior to communicate. Sometimes, kids act in ways that feel like a rejection to their parents. In these moments, it is important to remember that these children, most of the time, are in need of love, assurance, and validation. Understanding the root of the child's behavior can make it easier for parents to help them.

"The Batman Effect" Helps Kids Tackle Hard Tasks

Sarah Zellner — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

The Batman Effect refers to the finding that children perform better on a challenging task if they pretend to be someone else, such as Batman. Self-distancing helps them focus on the bigger picture. Thinking as a separate entity (someone other than oneself) can reduce anxiety. Even some famous actors and singers do this. Beyoncé, for example, uses Sasha Fierce.

How To Call Out Your Tween When They Disrespect You

Marah Vaillancourt — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 13:00:13 GMT

Leaving behind the childhood years and diving head first into adolescence happens in the blink of an eye. Parenting Tweens and Teens comes with an entirely new set of challenges and rewards; it requires parents to adapt their approach to supporting, loving, and disciplining their children. It goes without saying that a lot of changes are taking place in the mind and body of an adolescent.

Your Child's Imaginary Friend, Explained

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 15:00:13 GMT

In adults, seeing, hearing, and talking to a person that isn't really there might be a sign of mental illness. However, such things are completely common in young children. These are known as imaginary friends. According to WebMD, 65% of children have imaginary friends prior to turning seven years old.

Less Toys, More Imagination: Kids Are Naturally Creative

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Playing is how kids learn. They can explore and discover the world around them, with their imagination and their own two hands. Toys are fun, and they do serve a purpose; but equally important is being intentional about the number of toys our children have.

How To Create A Semi-Peaceful Home When Siblings Constantly Fight

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 13:01:12 GMT

If life were more like social media, kids would always get along and parents would never have to listen to their kids bickering. Unfortunately, that is not the way the world works. While some siblings become the best of friends, some seem like arch-enemies. It's also very common for them to swing back and forth between the two extremes.

What Actually Happens When Mom Doesn't Yell At Her Kids?

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT

All moms yell at least once in their lives. They feel overstimulated, overwhelmed, or angry, and raise their voices. It may feel like it solves something in that particular moment, but it rarely solves the situation. It doesn't correct any behavior, that is; it may just quiet everyone down and make them obedient for a short while.

Help Your Daughters Find Their Voices, Here's How

Marah Vaillancourt — Sun, 06 Nov 2022 15:01:12 GMT

Being the parent of a daughter is an incredible blessing of epic proportions; becoming the parent of a girl can make you see life in a totally different way. But it can have a unique set of challenges as well. It's no secret that history hasn't always been kind to women. Dating back centuries, women have been prevented from:

What To Do With Your 3-Year-Old All Day Long

Jessica Weisenbach — Sun, 06 Nov 2022 13:00:13 GMT

Three-year-olds are creative, active, playful, and fun to be around. At this stage, they are finding their own interests and preferred activities, but still want to spend most of their time around their caregivers. They are figuring out how the world around them works. 3-year-olds are also learning to manage their big emotions.

Easy Activities To Nourish Your Preschooler’s Cognitive Development

Jessica Weisenbach — Sun, 06 Nov 2022 12:00:13 GMT

Preschoolers are full of energy and eager to learn new things. Children develop at different rates and reach milestones in their own time as they explore and interact with others. Child development can be categorized into four areas: cognitive, physical, emotional, and social. According to Raising Children the cognitive development of a preschool child includes their ability to think, understand, communicate, remember, imagine and work out what might happen next.

How To Encourage A Tween Boy To Stop Gaming & Get Outside

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 17:00:13 GMT

There is a mass appeal in today's society for video games, especially among tween boys. The games are fun, the action is fast, and the challenges are enticing. However, when kids spend most of their time in front of screens, as most parents know, it's not good for them. Video games in particular have a poor effect on these unsuspecting tween boys.

After-School Clubs For High School Boys Who Are Intellectuals

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT

Getting teen boys involved with an after-school activity in high school can give them opportunities to explore their passions and connect with others who have similar interests. Kids make a lot of decisions in high school that prepare them for what they choose to do afterward, as adults. Being a part of student organizations or high school clubs is one of them.

How To Bond With An Introverted Child When You’re An Extroverted Mom

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Some parents can't relate. They don't have children that run wild and free, talking or yelling non-stop all over the place. Other parents might say that is not normal, they should see a doctor, or even diagnose them themselves. Having a child who is quiet and reserved, more hesitant than other children, does not typically need to see a doctor. It just simply means, they are introverted.

Why Attachment Toys Are Serious To Toddlers

Marah Vaillancourt — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 00:05:13 GMT

Have you ever temporarily lost your child's favorite toy or blanket and panicked until you could find it? If you answered "yes", chances are your child has an attachment toy or comfort item. These are the can't-live-without stuffed animals and loveys that steal our little ones' affection. Witnessing the strength of a child's attachment to an object can be might become worrisome for parents. At times, it might even feel like a hassle if your little one refuses to leave the house until they find their favorite toy to bring along. It might leave a parent wondering:

Why Children Need Adult Interaction

Jessica Weisenbach — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 16:00:12 GMT

It has been said young children are like sponges. They are curiously watching and listening to everything around them. The words they hear and things they see are constantly being absorbed and shaping their little minds. Through adult interactions, children develop communication and social-emotional skills while learning about the world around them.

How Kids Can Learn Social Skills From Screen Time

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 14:00:13 GMT

This may seem surprising to most, but a new study published by The University of Chicago found that despite the time spent on smartphones, today's young people are as socially skilled as those of the previous generation. For this study, researchers compared numerous evaluations of children who entered kindergarten in 1998 [long before social media], with children who entered kindergarten in 2010. Both groups of children were ones who had received heavy amounts of screen time. Both groups had similar development in social skills compared to those with little exposure.

After-School (No Screen) Activities For The Tween Who Loves To Be Neat

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 16:00:13 GMT

For parents whose tweens like to keep things tidy, giving them chores is sort of like giving them something fun to do. There is nothing wrong with that, of course; it's just that typically parents have the opposite problem. It's not every day you come across someone who enjoys cleaning, adults included.

Halloween YouTube Clips From Preschoolers' Favorite Shows

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 16:00:14 GMT

For parents looking for some cute Halloween clips including their preschoolers' favorite characters, look no further! This list is compiled of some of the best Halloween YouTube clips for little ones. Video Clips on YouTube are a new way for content creators and viewers to share bite-sized Clips of longer videos and live streams.

Why Many Kids Don't Eat Seafood & How To Implement It In Their Diet

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

When kids' meals are offered, or a kid-friendly recipe is offered, it's not likely that either will have seafood included in them. Kids are typically fonder of nuggets, fries, burgers, or pizza. A big maybe on fish sticks if anything. It's unfortunate too because seafood has so much amazing nutritional value and health benefits.

Time-Outs Explained By Experts

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 13:00:12 GMT

Some parents use time-outs when their child does something they shouldn't or says something they shouldn't. Likewise, some parents don't use them. These parents often think time-outs are too severe a punishment. They don't think children should be left alone to handle their hard emotions. Instead, these parents may use "time ins." Time-in is when the parent shows love and understanding for the child as they calm down.

Depression Screening Recommended For All Children Regardless Of Symptoms

Ashley Wehrli — Sun, 30 Oct 2022 12:00:13 GMT

A panel of experts has now recommended that depression screening should be done on all youth, regardless of if they are actually showing symptoms of mental health struggles. Mental health in youth is something that needs to be taken seriously.

Three-Year-Olds: Everything You Need To Know From Behavior To Developmental Needs

Ashley Wehrli — Sat, 29 Oct 2022 12:00:13 GMT

It can be hard to look at our child and see anything other than the cute and adorable bundle of joy they are. However, if we peel back the layers, we can see that there is a lot of development that is going on beneath the surface.

Cooking Games To Keep Kids Entertained

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 27 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Children love to help in the kitchen, whether it's cracking eggs or licking the beaters. Parents who are letting kids take part in cooking may not realize this, but they are opening the door to a lot of benefits for their children. Cooking games, online and off, are both useful in child development.

How To Help A Preschooler Deal With Stress

Jessica Tucker — Wed, 26 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

It does not matter who a person is. Everyone from kids to dads and moms are prone to feeling stress from time to time. The amount of stress felt and how chronic the stress is can vary by age and by the situation. But because preschool-age kids seem so happy and go-lucky, parents do not picture their little ones being capable of suffering from stress.

How To Help Your Toddler Resist Future Peer Pressure

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 26 Oct 2022 13:00:13 GMT

Toddlers are their own breed of human, and they can be balls of energy and also sweet little cuddle monsters. Parents are always trying to figure out their toddlers, and they are not always successful. All they know is that they want to raise their child to be kind, empathetic, and strong.

Teenage Girl's Diet Impacts Her Menstrual Pain

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

A new study has found that a teenage girl’s diet could have a big impact on pain during her menstrual cycle. It is not easy being a teenager, and they are going through a lot of changes. They are trying to navigate a tricky stage in development, and learn how to balance school, work, and social life.

How Teachers Can Support Kids' Mental Health This 2022-2023 School Year

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

Teachers are some of the most amazing individuals out there. It used to be that all a teacher did was teach. They had a subject and kids learned about it. That was it. Most didn't mess around with behavior issues, tears, or someone not having anything for lunch that day. It just wasn't what the school was capable of handling.

What Children Need To Live A Happy Childhood

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

There is a lot of information out there on what children need most as they grow, how to raise smart kids, even how to raise successful kids. What about raising happy kids? Happier kids, after all, are more likely to turn into successful, accomplished adults.

Four-Year-Olds: Everything You Need To Know From Behavior To Developmental Needs

Jessica Tucker — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 11:00:13 GMT

Turning four is a completely different ballgame for any other age that has come before it. This is because kids this age are exerting the independence they have been taught, making friends, attending preschool and having fun, and hitting milestones unlike ever before. They truly are becoming their own people with distinct likes and interests. Making it necessary to know what makes four-year-olds tick with everything from their behavior to their developmental needs so that they can grow and thrive like never before.

What Is Discipline (& What It Isn't)

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

A popular misconception about discipline is that it is the same as punishment. More times than not, people don't understand there is a difference between the two. It's really important that parents understand this though. Disciplining and child for something looks a lot different from punishment.

Koala Parenting Explained

Jessica Weisenbach — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

The koala parenting style focuses on nurturing an emotional and physical bond between mother and baby. Koala parents view the physical, mental, and emotional growth of children as all equally important parts of development.

How Socioeconomic Status Affects Parenting & Child Development

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 15:00:14 GMT

Socioeconomic status (SES) is defined by the American Psychological Association as the social standing or class of an individual or group. It is often measured as a combination of education, income and occupation. Examinations of socioeconomic status often reveal inequities in access to resources, plus issues related to privilege, power and control.

Parenting Styles: Concerted Cultivation & The Accomplishment Of Natural Growth

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

When people think of parenting styles, they typically think of things like overprotective, demanding, gentle, and so on. However, there are a lot of different parenting styles out there and combinations of parenting styles that make up different parenting styles. When you dig deeper into what is on the surface of parenting is where you find styles like concerted cultivation & the accomplishment of natural growth.

Tips For Preschoolers To Sit Still During Time-Out

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 23 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Decades of research show that using time-outs the correct way is a proven way to help correct behaviors. Yes, they sometimes get a bad rap, usually because parents are using them for punishment, which isn't the intended purpose. Some parents see no difference in behavior, so they don't believe it works. But, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), times-outs are still one of the most highly recommended forms of discipline, not punishment.

What To Do When You Find Yourself Saying, “But My First Child Didn’t Do That”

Jessica Tucker — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

It is human nature to make comparisons. This is done, according to Mind, Body and Soul to provide a "baseline for where we are in life, and where we want to be." Comparison allows people to make plans for change and is a unit of measure to tell if there has been any personal "progress" or growth as a result of that change. Something that can be healthy for individuals to do but not for parents to do with their kids. This is why when parents find themselves saying, "But my first child did not do that," they need to nip it in the bud. This will ensure that comparative comments are not said so that self-esteem remains high, mental health is not damaged, and relationships between siblings who are friends are not compromised.

How I Helped My Kids Get Through Their Learning Difficulties

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

As a mother of four boys, I've come across quite a few different struggles concerning them. Some days it seems as if it's not one thing, it's another. However, the way I parent, which is not perfect by any means, is I fix things. I am a fixer. This is all well and good in certain circumstances, but I do really need to pull back the reigns once in a while.

Parenting Tips For Aiding A Child With Working Memory Issues

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 16 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Children who struggle with working memory have a hard time keeping one piece of information in the forefront of their minds while doing something else. For example, if they are unloading the dishwasher, and they step away to answer a phone call, the phone call could lead to texting, Snapchat, or scrolling TikTok. Before parents realize it, the dishwasher is still open, half unloaded, and their child is playing video games. This is not being defiant. This child literally forgot all about the dishwasher the second they answered the phone call.

Thinking About Thinking Will Benefit Kids, Here’s How

Jessica Tucker — Sat, 15 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

The art of thinking about thinking is something that most people do on a daily basis, according to the Child Mind Institute. It is known as metacognition. When kids participate in metacognition, there are several benefits they gain from doing so. This is because, according to Resilient Educator, metacognition helps kids to "understand how they learn best." When kids can grasp this concept and can recognize the best way to learn and study for them, they are better able to retain information. Most importantly though, the art of resilience is discovered. And learning to be resilient is something that will benefit kids not only when young but when they age as well.

Smart Home Devices May Be Hindering Child's Development

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 13 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

A new study has found that the “smart” home devices you have in your home could be negatively impacting your child’s development. The subject of child development is vast, and it is always evolving and changing. Experts are working every day to look at how children learn, grow and develop.

Children Who Watch Parents Drink May Develop Gender-Specific Thoughts On Alcohol

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 13 Oct 2022 16:00:15 GMT

A new study has found that children who watch their parents drink may develop gender-specific thoughts on alcohol in general. The field of child development is vaster and more complex than many people may believe it to be. It is about a lot more than just guiding them in life, and providing them with the things they need to thrive.

A Calm Voice Helps Develop Calm Kids, Here’s How

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 12 Oct 2022 11:00:12 GMT

Motherhood is a journey, and there are a million ways to raise a child into an adult. Moms go into it knowing what they want their children to be like when they are older. They want them to be kind, empathetic, and generous. They want them to be able to think rationally, and have a sense of calm to them.

Avoid Telling Your Child How To Feel When They’re Throwing A Tantrum, Here’s Why

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 11 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

One of the hardest parts of being a parent is dealing with tantrums and meltdowns, but it is inevitable. Children are always going to have big feelings, and despite tantrums being associated with toddlers, it is not uncommon for older children to have “tantrums” as well.

Children's Special Skill Prevents Them From Falling Into This "Learning Trap"

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 11 Oct 2022 11:00:12 GMT

A new study has found that children are able to avoid falling into a “learning trap” that is often felt in adults. Children are always learning. They spend almost every moment of their day learning, even if they don’t realize it. They are learning through interactive play, creative play, and sensory play. They are even learning while sitting and looking through a book.

How To Recognize Signs Your Child Is Facing Social Struggles

Ashley Wehrli — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 17:00:13 GMT

No parent ever wants their child to struggle, but that is a part of life, and it is definitely a part of child development. As children grow and navigate the world around them, they are going to find things that come easy to them, and things that they struggle with.

How To Have Conversations With Child That Will Help Them Feel Heard & Not Dismissed

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 16:00:13 GMT

Children are not miniature versions of adults; they should not be treated as such either. The actual adults have an important role in guiding and facilitating children's development. The transformation into adulthood is a big process. This process includes factors like, but not limited to, biological, cognitive, and moral development.

How To Help Your High Schooler Navigate New Classes, Stress & Teachers

Jessica Tucker — Sat, 08 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Preparing for high school can be challenging. High school is a time when teens are suddenly treated more as adults than they are children. When this happens, it can be difficult to learn to navigate new classes, handle newfound stressors, and deal with the personalities of teachers. As time goes on and strategies are developed and put into action, however, all of these things can be handled with grace and can help keep high schoolers motivated. But to get to that point, parents will have to help their high schoolers learn to navigate stress, new classes, and teachers because that is not something that can be done on the part of teens alone.

Watching TV With Your Children Could Help Their Cognitive Development

Ashley Wehrli — Sat, 08 Oct 2022 12:01:12 GMT

A new study has found that watching TV with your children can actually help their cognitive development. When it comes to screen time, parents can be divided. Some don’t want their children exposed to it at all, while others see it as a tool for survival, and they rely on it to help entertain their children and run their homes.

What To Do When Your Tween Is Addicted To Mature Content

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

Mature content is something not many people talk about, despite the rampant infestation among adolescents. Quite a few parents have been put into a state of complete shock and bewilderment on finding out that their child has indeed come across mature content. It's all over these days, and due to the fact that the distributors seek out the vulnerable, that means children get included.

Why Your Tween Feels Like They Have No Identity

Larissa Marulli — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 12:01:12 GMT

The tween years are a very formative time for kids. They're no longer small children, but they aren't quite yet teenagers. They're in between these two stages and that can be a bit of lost time for these kids. Tweens often struggle with their own self-identity because of their age. Figuring out who you are is no small task, and tweens are just old enough to start emerging out from under their parent's wings.

Does Sharing Custody Of Children Ever Get Better Emotionally?

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 04 Oct 2022 14:00:13 GMT

Sharing custody of a child normally starts with a divorce or break-up of some kind. Not always, but when it does, it can further complicate the already emotional roller coaster a mom might be on when being ordered to share her child, too.

Mental Health Books For Middle School Kids

Sarah Zellner — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 15:00:13 GMT

"Mental health" is a broad phrase that means different things to different people. Anxiety, OCD, depression, body image, ADHD and so much more, that children may experience themselves or through family members. Mental health education can begin at a young age. It will help children as well as their parents to become better informed and hopefully gain a better understanding of mental health.

Working Moms Unknowingly Help Daughters Succeed At Work In The Future

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 11:01:12 GMT

In years past, there were concerns that women who chose to work were somehow negatively impacting their children by sending them to daycare when they were young and aftercare as they became school-aged children. Couple those thoughts with the massive amount of mom guilt women felt by going off to the office versus staying at home to raise the kids, and it is no wonder that women struggled and continue to struggle with their choice to return to their careers after having children. But it is time for women to shake off that guilt. Because not only are children of working moms turning out just fine, but working moms are unknowingly helping their daughters to succeed at work in the future.

Eviction History Linked To Negative Child Development

Ashley Wehrli — Sun, 02 Oct 2022 13:01:12 GMT

A new study has found that children who have a history of evictions in their families are at risk of negative child development aspects. When it comes to raising a healthy and well-child, there is a lot more to think about than just what they eat, and how often they visit the doctor.

“Work Hard”: What Your Kids Are Really Hearing

Jessica Tucker — Sun, 02 Oct 2022 12:01:13 GMT

When parents tell their kids to work hard in order to succeed, it is quite a loaded statement. What it expresses to kids is that if they do not work hard, they will have less in life. That no matter the challenges kids face they can be overcome with hard work. That success rests on their shoulders versus there being any outside influences that contribute to success. All of these can cause biases against others and a lot of pressure to be carried on the shoulders of kids placed there by parents. All because of what kids really hear when they are told "work hard."

Pandemic "Stunted" Social Development Of Young Adults

Ashley Wehrli — Fri, 30 Sep 2022 11:01:13 GMT

A new study has found that the pandemic “stunted” social development in young adults, and this could have complications for years to come. The COVID-19 pandemic has proven to be about much more than health. While health played a big part, there were ripple effects that are just being studied now.

Why Children Are Impulsive & Why It Actually Is A Problem

Jessica Tucker — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

Impulsivity is a trait that many younger children have. It is not because they are trying to be difficult or put themselves in dangerous positions. It is simply because they do not think before they act, as shown by the comments they make or by hitting other children. And while kids being impulsive may seem like just a phase they will grow out of; it is a trait that needs parental intervention to help correct. This is because if kids do not learn to think before they act, the behaviors will only continue to become more reckless. Something that can become a problem with impulsive children.

Why ADHD Kids Have Angry Outbursts (& How To Remain Calm)

Jessica Tucker — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 17:00:12 GMT

Kids with ADHD feel their emotions in a bigger way than most other children do. As such, when they decide they do not want to do something, find a task too hard to do, or get frustrated, according to Child Mind Institute, kids with ADHD may become angry at the drop of a hat. Something that they are not necessarily trying to do but instead, have little control over. This is why when parenting a child with ADHD, getting to the root of angry emotional outbursts is important. And the key to doing this effectively is remaining calm while doing so.

Girls Who Are Tomboys: Is It Just A Phase Or Is It Who They Are?

Larissa Marulli — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 15:00:13 GMT

The popular phrase tomboy refers to girls who display many characteristics that are mainly attributed to boys. These are girls who are very spirited and like to run and play sports. They have a lot of energy, dislike dresses, and may have more friends who are boys than girls.

Play Therapy Techniques To Improve Kids' Self-Control

Jessica Tucker — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 12:00:13 GMT

Self-control is not a skill that kids are born with. It is something that has to be worked on in order to become proficient. But considering that kids only begin to be able to have self-control between three and a half and four years of age, according to PBS Kids, it takes time to get self-control to the point where taming temper tantrums and the ability to regulate emotions happen with frequency. And a great way to help kids improve their self-control is with play therapy techniques.

Why Catching A Ball Is A Milestone For A Five-Year-Old

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 16:00:14 GMT

Motherhood is always challenging, and part of that is because moms always have things that they are constantly thinking about. They have to keep everyone’s appointments in their head, they have to make sure their children are fed and cared for, and they have to make sure their children are developing appropriately.

Stop Expecting So Much From Your Teen

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 15:00:13 GMT

Teens these days are much different from generations past. They have grown up with smartphones, surfing the web, and social media. They are more complex; they grow up faster; they have real mental health problems that are more than just teenage drama. It's not a wonder we treat them more like adults.

Why Is My School-Aged Child Walking On Tiptoes?

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

Moms are always watching their children’s development to make sure they are on the right track. They know that every child develops at their own pace, and they meet milestones at different times, but they know (in general) what should be happening. They also watch how their child acts, talks and moves to make sure everything is OK.

Smoking Around Children Could Impact Future Grandchildren

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 12:00:13 GMT

A new study has found that smoking around young children can impact future grandchildren. Smoking is known to be harmful for a person’s health. However, it is also dangerous to those that are around them. Second-hand smoke around children has already been shown to be harmful, but the impact may not be completely known yet.

Parents Think Teachers Helped Shape Who They Are Now

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT

A new survey has found that the majority of parents feel like their teachers helped to shape who they are now as adults. It is easy to say that teachers are a vital part of our child’s lives. Our children spend a lot of time with their teachers, they learn and grow, and they can be a trusted source that your child can go to.

If You've Failed At Preventing A Tantrum Try This

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 26 Sep 2022 17:00:13 GMT

Tantrums are a part of life for just about every young child. It is the rare few that make it through their toddler years and even in the years beyond unscathed. As such, parents have to determine what works for their children to help prevent emotional explosions before they happen. Something that is successful at times and crashes and burns at others. But it is when failure happens more often than not that new tactics need to be taken. And the hope with doing this is that parents will no longer fail at preventing tantrums.

Things To Say To A Child Who May Have Lost Hope

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 25 Sep 2022 16:01:12 GMT

With an increase in violence, particularly gun violence, in schools, it's not a wonder that kids are losing hope. When it comes to the amount of stress, anxiety, and depression that comes with all that trauma, it's even hard for an adult to make sense of it.

Milestones Of A Self-Sufficient Teenager

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 25 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT

Tweens and teens face a lot of different challenges facing them. As they continue to progress through adolescence, it's important they have a good support system. They may think they can find their own way, and maybe they can go through some issues, but other times they still need guidance.

Despite Popular Belief, Children May Not Believe Everything They Are Told

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 22 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

A new study has found that children may not be as gullible as we think, and they may not believe everything that we tell them. While all parents know that lying is wrong, it is hard to find a parent who doesn’t tell their children little “white” lies sometimes.

Underrated Developmental Milestones That Happen In Kindergarten

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 22 Sep 2022 15:01:12 GMT

When people think of milestones, it's typically things like sitting up, walking, or talking. A lot of big things happen in the first two years of a child's life, so it's no surprise. As children get older, milestones are often thought of as learning how to read, counting to 100, or learning the ABCs.

Fun & Easy Social-Emotional Activities

Jessica Weisenbach — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 17:00:12 GMT

The social-emotional development of our children involves their relationships with others, managing feelings, and understanding the feelings of others. Family, caregivers, and experiences shape a child’s social and emotional growth from birth.

How To Build Self-Confidence In A Shy High School Boy

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

When it comes to shy teens, most people automatically think of teen girls facing declining self-confidence that causes them to be shy. But just as teen girls can be shy, so can teen boys. In order for teen boys to build their confidence, they need to be willing to change, they need to be willing to put themselves out there and maybe even get a bit uncomfortable in the process. Once this is done several times, however, the discomfort lessens and teen boys find themselves in different social situations they may never have imagined they would be in. All because ways were found to build self-confidence in shy high school boys.

Why Kindergartners Won't Listen The First Time

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT

When kids enter kindergarten, they are at the age where they are learning and feeling more independent than ever. But with learning that independence, they are also prone to pushing the boundaries and having large emotions when they do not get what they want. Part of which plays into why kindergartners do not listen the first time around. Something that if parents do not address will only get worse as this population ages.

Why Your Child May Suddenly Act Disrespectfully

Jessica Tucker — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

When kids suddenly act disrespectfully, it is not because they are bad kids. Instead, it likely means that something else is happening under the surface that needs to be addressed. An issue that needs to be taken care of in childhood so that the behavior does not follow kids into their teen years. But before addressing the behavior can be done, parents have to get to the bottom of what the issue is that is manifesting itself in the form of disrespect, something that is not appropriate to do but when it is recognized that kids are not being disrespectful for disrespect's sake, it is an easier pill for parents to swallow. And perhaps it will better allow parents to help their kids get to the bottom of why they are suddenly acting disrespectfully so that an end to the poor behavior can be had.

Parents Eating Behavior Can Contribute To Teen's Emotional Eating Habits

Ashley Wehrli — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 12:00:13 GMT

A new study has found that parents' eating behavior can contribute to a teenager’s emotional eating habits. Teenagers are in a tricky stage of development. They are dealing with pressure in their lives, like work, school, and social life. They are also trying to find who they are apart from their parents.

Teens More Likely To Vape If A Parent Smokes

Ashley Wehrli — Sun, 18 Sep 2022 19:00:12 GMT

A new study has found that teens are more likely to vape if they have a parent who smokes. Vaping among youth has become a bigger concern for parents and medical professionals. It can be considered detrimental to their health, and it can be seen as a gateway to smoking cigarettes and other nicotine products.

What Teen Anxiety Looks Like

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 16 Sep 2022 15:00:13 GMT

Everyone at some point will experience anxiety. It is not always the same kind of anxiety, though. Sometimes it shows up before a big presentation, or when someone is scared or fearful of something; but does it go away? When anxiety doesn't go away and becomes part of a person's everyday life, it is then that there might be a problem.

Should Twins Be In The Same Class Or Separate?

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 16:00:13 GMT

Having twins can be like a crazy carnival ride on the fritz. Two of everything. Two diapers to change, two babies to feed, and two cries waking parents at night. Quite possibly the most daunting task, however, is having two little humans try to make the best choices before they can make them for themselves.

Why It's Okay If Your Teen Sometimes Says No To You

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

Pressure. At some point all humans will feel pressure or be pressured for some reason. Making decisions under pressure doesn't always work out the best. According to Holly Blake, associate professor of Behavioral Science at The University of Nottingham, when people are pressured it causes the body to release stress hormones and go into a fight or flight response.

Teens Without Mother-Child Bond Can Be Helped By Neighbors

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

A new study has found that teenagers who do not have a close bond with their mothers can be helped by their neighbors in their community. While it would be nice if every family was loving, and kind like the ones you see on TV; that is not always the case. There are families out there who are really struggling with relationships and close bonds.

'Digital Self-Harm' Linked To Higher Rate Of Physical Self-Harm

Ashley Wehrli — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 13:10:11 GMT

A new study has found that digital self-harm is linked to a higher rate of self-harm and suicide. Mental health and self-harm behaviors have always been important, and it is something that has always been talked about. Studies have been done to see what increases the risk, and what can help reduce the number of children who are struggling.

How To Encourage Your 3rd Grader To Make Friends This School Year

Larissa Marulli — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 11:00:12 GMT

Making friends can sometimes be very hard to do and for kids who struggle to connect with their peers, school can be a less than positive experience. Once kids reach middle school, they become more aware of the world around them and become just a bit less self-focused. They're starting to see their differences and pairing off with those they have more in common with and those they relate to. Having and making friends is a vital social skill for all school-aged children and 3rd graders are no different when it comes to their desire to be well-liked.

Traits Parents Fear Passing Onto Their Children

Sarah Zellner — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT

When a couple has a brand-new baby, it is common to hear things like, "He has his father's nose" or "She has her mother's eyes." When people say these things, they are referring to genetic traits that have been passed down to a child from their biological parents.

Why A Sensory Diet Is Not Only For Kids With Special Needs

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 08 Sep 2022 15:00:12 GMT

The first time people hear, "sensory diet", they might think food is involved; it's not. Diet has four different meanings, according to Merriam-Webster. In the sense it is used here, diet means, something provided or experienced repeatedly.

Teaching Children Assertiveness Using Color

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 08 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

Parents can be a big help in teaching their child to be more assertive. Assertiveness can help children to feel more in control, maneuver more smoothly through adolescent challenges, and adapt in social situations.

Who Needs You More, Your Toddler Or Your Teen?

Sarah Zellner — Thu, 08 Sep 2022 13:00:13 GMT

Parents often hash it out over what age is the hardest; regarding children. It seems that it always leans towards the age that a particular parent is dealing with at the moment. One thing that can always be agreed on is: parenting is hard.

What Moms Need To Know About Empathy When It Comes To Their Child

Sarah Zellner — Wed, 07 Sep 2022 14:00:12 GMT

Empathy is often thought of as being able to love and care about other people. When someone has the ability to connect with someone emotionally, understanding why a person may feel hurt by seeing things from their point of view. While that is part of empathy, there are other levels of empathy that a lot of people may not even realize exist.

Does A Sibling’s Gender Influence A Child's Personality?

Ashley Wehrli — Wed, 07 Sep 2022 12:01:12 GMT

A new study was done that was aimed at looking at if a sibling’s gender influenced their personality as they were growing up. Siblings are a normal part of a lot of children’s development, and they can be wonderful. While moms have to deal with some sibling rivalry, they also know that these are some of the greatest friends their children will have.

I Didn't Do Anything To Cause My Sons Autism, Why Can't Society Accept That?

Sarah Zellner — Tue, 06 Sep 2022 13:00:12 GMT

In September 2013, I brought my then 3-year-old son into a room full of people to be evaluated. This evaluation was due to the fact that I believed my son had autism. It was a strenuous couple of hours, and when it was over, they said they would be reviewing and making a more formal diagnosis for me. But from what they saw, "Your son does appear to have autism, as well as ADHD, and possibly sensory processing disorder (SPD)."

Obese Kids More Likely To Start Puberty Earlier

Ashley Wehrli — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 12:00:12 GMT

A new study has found that there is a link between childhood obesity and an earlier start to puberty. Childhood obesity is a problem all across the country, and it impacts children from various backgrounds and homes. Work has been done to see what kind of interventions can help these children, but that is not all.

Why Do Little Kids Need To Touch Everything?

Sarah Zellner — Sat, 03 Sep 2022 16:00:12 GMT

Have you ever been in the store with your child and had to tell them several times to stop touching everything? If you haven't, you should know it can be very frustrating for parents. It's the lack of understanding of how a child's brain develops. A lot of times kids are viewed as miniature adults. You tell them something once, and they should know the rules and listen.

How Families Use Technology To Improve Children’s Communication

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 02 Sep 2022 17:00:12 GMT

We live in an age of technology that is busting at the seams. Communication has never been easier. When it comes to children who are learning and developing communication, technology steps in and has a big influence on that as well.

What To Do After Validating Your Child & They Just Scream Louder

Sarah Zellner — Fri, 02 Sep 2022 14:00:13 GMT

When parents acknowledge or validate their child's feelings, they attempt to calm them and let them know that they are being heard. This sometimes helps to regulate emotions. It may let the child know that they are safe, and it's ok to feel how they feel.

Ways To Support Your Emerging Reader

Larissa Marulli — Fri, 02 Sep 2022 12:00:12 GMT

A child just learning to read is on the cusp of a brand-new adventure. As their mom, you want to be there to support them and help them in every way possible. This is an exciting time for you too. Learning how to read is such a milestone and is truly the foundation of all education. Children learn to read at all ages and as long as your child gets there at their own pace, they're doing well.

Personality Disorders In Moms Leads To Unhealthy Attachment Issues In Kids

Ashley Wehrli — Thu, 01 Sep 2022 12:00:12 GMT

A new study has found that personality disorders in moms can lead to unhealthy attachment issues in children. Mental health issues are being spoken about more, and this is a good thing. It allows the stigma to be erased, and it helps women out there get the help they need.